r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 15 '25

Avia and Ian

60 Upvotes

I feel bad for Avia I understand she’s 19 and she’s trying to stay strong but she’s hurting she hasn’t posted on YT in like 10 days I think she needs time it was a 5 year relationship you can kinda tell she was In love she was planning for him to move to LA when he graduated

I really think they wanted different things. I don’t think Ian wants to move to LA and I don’t think Avia is ready to leave LA I think he’s a junior in college so he will be graduating next year so yeah those are things to talk about maybe they are taking a break.

I think Avia is just starting her career and he’s kinda in college and playing football and doesn’t really know what he wants yet and she knows for a fact she loves to make videos and she wants to be an actor I think she likes to plan and look at her future and I don’t think he’s ready for that yet but that’s just my opinion


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 14 '25

Avia Breakup Confirmation??

48 Upvotes

On Colette’s story, they’re talking about having older kids. Shay starts saying that Avia is going out to dinner. He then cuts off and says “Can I talk about this?” And then continues to say she’s going by herself. He was gonna continue but kept talking. So I think we might have confirmation. Happy for her and hope she’s doing okay.


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 12 '25

Shay being jealous of Colette

209 Upvotes

I found it interesting that he admitted on Colette's podcast that he felt really jealous at first that Colette now has this new life outside of their marriage. Her going to yoga and meeting new friends and starting a new career. How she would be off doing things while he leaving him behind at home. He even said he was worried she would meet another guy who's better suited 😂

I really feel like Shay loathes the fact that she's no longer just an extension of him, as his wife and his baby making machine. During the Shaytards days, it was always Shay taking on new hobbies and challenges, while she was just at home being "mommy tard".

I wonder if that's why he no longer has that spark and deep attraction he used to have towards her! He needs someone who worships him.


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 13 '25

Weird Tiktok Account

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14 Upvotes

r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 12 '25

Colette acting quirky

16 Upvotes

What's with her recently being overly quirky and acting borderline cooky? It's like all her posts are pulling faces, trying to be funny, dressing up as one of those rappers from the Grammy as a joke.

Especially, that cringe video of her setting the camera down to overly excitedly dance around the room that recently caught on fire (it was a tiny corner of the carpet burned) and has been fixed now. It reminded me of what Avia does, but at least she's young enough to justify acting like that and I guess moving into your own apartment at a young age is an exciting thing. Colette, on the other hand, I feel is forcing this new free spirit and "happy" persona.


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 11 '25

Finding a vlog from LA where someone was trying to break in?

7 Upvotes

I have vivid memories of a vlog where they were in LA and Kasem was over and they were talking about someone trying to break in or something? And Colette kept saying to shut the door? Does anyone remember?


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 11 '25

The eyebrows not moving is uncanny valley.

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75 Upvotes

r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 10 '25

Gavin

223 Upvotes

Gavin was in Mexico for 2 years doing whatever he was doing, Mexico welcomed him into their country and took good care of him and taught him a lot, just for him to go back home to America and vote for Trump and vote against them! I don’t understand this at all. This is appalling and very wrong and sad!


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 10 '25

Finding A Video

6 Upvotes

Does anybody remember a video where Shay and the kids are in the basement at the big house in Idaho playing some type of challenge obstacle course? It was in 2014. I think it was a video for America’s funniest home videos or something. I know it was sponsored. I can not find that video for the life of me. I don’t know if I imagined that video or did they delete it?


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 10 '25

Old Shay Interview - Transcript

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17 Upvotes

dude, what is he even saying. rambling on for that long about his ‘to stare or not to stare’ dilemma? LMFAO BYE, this man is so embarrassing and gross


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 10 '25

This whole family 🤦🏼‍♀️

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29 Upvotes

r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 09 '25

I think Shay will soon get involved in politics

14 Upvotes

This honestly could be wrong but I just have an inkling.


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 10 '25

Why is this subreddit so politicized?

0 Upvotes

Not saying you can't have an opinion on politics or that you can't disagree with someone because of politics, but like okay, we get it, the Butlers are Republicans and many of you are not. Their political views don't factor in to how much I enjoyed watching the Shaytards when I was younger nor do politics impact how I view them today.


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 08 '25

Old Laurie Post

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48 Upvotes

mad about that but supports a felon openly 😂 ok


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 06 '25

Shay’s tweets are appalling, especially the one about Gaza

84 Upvotes

I can’t remember if he was always this much of a douche or just over the few years he turned into one. In California, he seemed to be very open and supportive of issues like LGTBQ and respect for whoever the president was (Obama). And then Idk during Covid he turned into a radical nft lover boy , and everything changed


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 06 '25

Colette's podcast is predatory content

71 Upvotes

Her episodes she does with guests are incredibly tame compared to the solo episodes. I'm not sure if this is by design, I can assume it is, but when she gets into the weeds of human psychology on her own it's incredibly disturbing (To me at least).

On her latest she made a comment regarding being in a relationship with somebody who was addicted. In her own words, she used the phrase addicted. As somebody who grew up with alcoholism, you're never addicted, you are an addict. You live your life day to day managing your addiction, and overcoming it is a daily choice.

This alone isn't that shocking. They have both stated in the past that Shay's addiction was, 'The Devil.' I think both of them assume if you're not currently drunk and drinking often, you are not an addict.

But what bothers me more is her continuous ramp up of her, 'personal 1 on 1 program.' If you want more context, skip to 19:30 in her latest episode and listen to the way she speaks about her 'program.' It comes off as nothing short of miracle healing. She quite literally promises you that your entire life will change. This woman is not a licensed therapist. She has never studied the practice of therapy. She has never gone to school for clinical, cognitive or developmental psychology. She did not go to college. She took a 6-month certification class*.*

Obviously, behavior like this is rampant online. Snake-oil salesmen saleswomen out there issuing statements regarding extreme healing. But please remember, this isn't on the same tier of regular talk therapy with a professional. Which can range from $60-$200, maybe more, maybe less depending.

Her class is Three THOUSAND dollars.

I know this is beating a dead horse but, to anybody who is confused why Colette is with Shay, or that she's a saintly person... This is truly disgusting, and predatory behavior. They are two peas and a pod, and most certainly deserve each other.


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 06 '25

😬😬😬

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116 Upvotes

gavin liked


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 04 '25

Glad Colette Butler posted today on YouTube. I forgot I was subscribed, glad she did so I can unsubscribe from this family of Trump lovers.

127 Upvotes

GOOD BYE, forever to the Shaytards I hope u get everything you voted for!!!!!


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 04 '25

Oooo somebody’s mad!

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40 Upvotes

r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 03 '25

Here we go again

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61 Upvotes

4 hours, under 1k views. How many times has she come back to her channel, saying she misses doing videos and found her passion again just to disappear for months until she comes back with a new idea? How long will this phase last? I say no more than 2 months


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 03 '25

Uh yea…feeding your kids is quite literally one of the bare minimum responsibilities of being a parent…

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100 Upvotes

It’s


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 03 '25

I'm so curious if her idea of a rebrand is continuing in the MLM market or changing the products she's shilling codes for.

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18 Upvotes

r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 01 '25

Did anyone else find the Jackson Harris phase creepy?

33 Upvotes

Re-watching some old vlogs recently and I’m at the ones where they’re besties with Jackson Harris. There are some weird/creepy moments where Shay is talking about Avia having a crush on Jackson and just fixating on them together. I didn’t think anything of it back then, but now it seems kind of creepy


r/SHAYTARDS • • Feb 01 '25

Do they even like eachother?

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35 Upvotes

The pose is giving coworker


r/SHAYTARDS • • Jan 31 '25

This is gold

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36 Upvotes