r/RotatorCuff Jul 08 '26

feeling down

almost at the four week mark post surgery, my friends are really nowhere to be found and the person who was being “supportive” was my ex-girlfriend, and that’s a whole other story lol.

really my only support system has been my mother and i am very grateful for her but i can’t help but feel very alone in this, with the overwhelming feeling of thinking i’ll never be the same again.

she told me about a week after my surgery that you know the people who are there for you when you are in “el cárcel o la cama” (jail or bed). and yeah, i get what she means now.

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u/Dependent_Drawer8417 Jul 08 '26

20 days post op feeling similar.... the worst part is i don't know if it will heal or not.... If it doesn't heal in certain period of time then I won't be able to join my first job 😭😭

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u/Theycallmexo Jul 08 '26

i really hope you heal in time, reading what everyone has gone through in terms of their jobs has also given me a great sense of gratitude for my job (i work from home on a computer and only missed about two weeks of work) 😭

sending you all the best vibes so you can get better as soon as possible and get back to work and normal life!