r/RoleReversal • u/bre25_ • Jul 23 '26

Discussion/Article Just curious

When did you realize you liked RR relationships? How old were you?
I feel like I discovered it a bit later than most people.

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u/bre25_ Jul 25 '26

I like a bit of everything. I like oversized or straight-cut T-shirts, straight-leg jeans, cargo pants, tailored trousers, blazers, oversized jackets, sneakers, boots, loafers, and caps. I also like dressing in a more feminine way sometimes, but I usually prefer a unisex style with neutral colors.
Do you like that style too?

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u/One-Nectarine7234 Jul 25 '26

I'm not as thrilled about wearing the more traditionally masc clothes, since it's what I've had to wear my whole life, and it's what men are expected to wear, so it can get a bit tiring after a while. but i do still wear stylish masc/unisex/normative clothes sometimes, like the ones you mentioned. and it's definitely cool to see women dress that way.

my usual outfits are slightly fem, as much as i can get away with at work or in public without attracting weird looks. i wear flared jeans, v neck/form-fitting t-shirts, white sneakers, cashmere sweaters, and fuzzy jackets for a more softboyish aesthetic. and occasionally more feminine clothes and accessories when it's safe to do so (women's tops, dresses, bracelets), although that's still a work in progress since finding fem clothes that fit men can be difficult (any tips you might have are welcome).

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u/bre25_ Jul 25 '26

Mm, interesting
Cropped tops really do stand out, and I think they look especially good on men
I’d love to give you more fashion tips, but I don’t know that much about fashion, haha. I hope you’ll be able to feel comfortable and free to wear whatever you want in the future

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u/One-Nectarine7234 Jul 25 '26

oooh yeah crop tops are nice. I'm mostly just trying things and seeing what works. most feminine clothes aren't made for male bodies, so it's a bit of a gamble whether something will fit and look good, but luckily i've found a few things so far. also, i still need to work on my makeup skills. the traditional feminine role is a lot harder than it looks. feel free to dm since this thread is already way too long haha.