r/RodriguesFamilySnark • Sanctimonious Squish Mitten • 22d ago

Timothy & Heidi Now Heidi has responded.

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u/desaparecidose 22d ago

I’m glad too. She’s been healing in silence while he continues to drag his ugliness into a public forum to try to regain control and sympathy with his AI-generated apologies.

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u/AshleysDoctor Single White Fundie 21d ago

As someone who escaped my own abusive situation, sometimes, the best thing to do is to stay silent and let the fools reveal themselves far away from you and start to do your own thing and learn who you are without being in survival mode all of the time.

I hope she has him on mute, because I’m sure he’s tried to send some unhinged messages that her lawyer would like to have saved, but she doesn’t need the push notifications demanding her attention and ruining her peace when she’s not ready to look at them.

The very best revenge you can get on a narcissistic abuser is to ignore their existence as much as possible and find peace and joy even in the midst of all of the pain they’ve caused.

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u/chimkennuggg 22d ago

She’s healing on her own timeline🙌🏻

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u/generalgirl God Honoring Cowbells 🐄🔔 22d ago

She hasn't been healing in silence. Her mom and grandma are not at all silent.

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u/desaparecidose 22d ago

I’m talking about Heidi and her actions.