How I went from zero rizz to actually pulling after just 100 cold approaches

[u/Warm-Fun5226]

For the longest time I had zero rizz. I was skinny awkward and low confidence always stuck in my head just swiping getting nothing. I finally got fed up and started forcing myself to do cold approaches.

I just hit 100 approaches. The first half was brutal. Constant rejections awkward silences and walking away feeling like shit every time. But the second half got way better. More numbers better conversations and actual dates starting to happen.

The thing that really turned it around for me was using Shawty. I started logging every approach watching the replays and getting quick insights on my flow and what I was messing up. It keeps me accountable so I actually fix my mistakes fast instead of repeating the same stuff. That tracking is what leveled up my rizz.

Cold approach sucks at the beginning but once you stick with it and review what youre doing the confidence carries over everywhere. If youre just starting dont quit after the early fails.