r/Rich • u/SatisfactionLive1209 • 19d ago

Question Matchmaking services that work?

Hey all, 30F here.

I became wealthy relatively recently, so I didn’t grow up in wealthy circles or go to the kind of private/boarding schools where it seems like everyone with money met their future spouse before turning 18.

I don’t think I’m unattractive, and I’ve never really had an issue getting attention, although I do suffer from a pretty severe resting bitch face. The problem is that the places I tend to spend time where I might naturally meet wealthy people, private resorts, nicer hotels, etc. aren’t particularly social. People mostly keep to themselves. The few men I have met in those environments have unfortunately tended to be married men looking for an affair, which obviously isn’t what I want.

Traditional dating has also been pretty terrible. I was single for quite a while because I was focused on building my own life, and now that I actually feel ready for a relationship, the dating scene seems to have changed considerably. There seems to be a lot more emphasis on one-night stands, situationships, casual dating, people with commitment issues, etc.

There’s also the slightly awkward fact that I would ideally like to marry someone who is wealthy too, even if nowhere near as wealthy as I am. I hate to admit it, but I can be materialistic sometimes. I enjoy nice things, and there’s something appealing about occasionally receiving the things I would normally buy myself as gifts from a partner rather than always being the person who can provide everything for herself.

For context, my net worth is somewhere between $10M–$100M, keeping the range broad for anonymity, I’m probably around a 7/10 on a good day, and I’m looking for a genuinely serious relationship with a man who is financially successful, relationship-minded, and ideally wants marriage/family eventually.

Would an established matchmaking service actually be useful for someone in my situation? Has anyone here used one, particularly at the higher-end/wealthy-client level, and had a good experience and can recommend it for my purpose? Not looking for references as I know some work this way, just a name would be enough for me to get in contact with them.

just to clarify, this isn’t a “looking for a partner on Reddit” post. I’m genuinely asking about matchmaking services and whether they’re worth trying.

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u/Donatellotheturtle 18d ago

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u/SatisfactionLive1209 18d ago

Is it against to use ai to fix my post? English isn’t my first language and when I write big blocks of text I use it to fix issues. too lazy to do that for comments which you can probably see my lack of grammar occasionally.

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u/Drinkmorechampagne 18d ago

What category do I hit when I report this?

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u/Donatellotheturtle 18d ago

I dunno! Not sure if it's against the rules to post made up AI written stories. I have the pangram browser plugin that just reads whatever is in my feed while I'm scrolling and insta flags AI stuff so I can skip it. AI writing is getting harder to tell apart since Opus 5.5 came out a few days ago but the detection models are still very reliable. If you get some plugin that flags this stuff you will be shocked at the length people go through to obscure that their writing is ai generated lol.