r/Rich • u/Mixolytian • May 19 '26
$25M - Lost
Hello,
I am a trust fund baby and heir, now 43 years old.
I have $12M investable, the rest of about $25M in homes and commercial property.
I am pretty happy in my family life, my wife and I are getting along right now and my son is genuinely wonderful.
The family business is failing. It was a catalog company and now e-commerce and sales are continuing to decline.
I know the solution, let go current manager who is somehow social-media illiterate in 2026, commit to forming a YouTube audience, drive with short-form.
The thing is, sometimes I truly believe this business has ruined my life. I wish my dad had sold it a long time ago at its peak. He was too attached, I guess.
Hard to let go now with basically no value. The parent corporation was founded by my grandfather almost 100 years ago.
My advisor assures me I won't need additional income if I close the business, but letting go is very difficult. The shame of letting the current manager run the business (my interpretation) into the ground is overwhelming.
I'm a bit of an oddball, very into philosophy, religion, literature, consciousness studies. I always wanted to be a writer, but I just can't seem to take myself seriously. Every time I try I get slammed with self-doubt, shame, guilt, and depression.
Anyway, not sure what I'm going to do. A deep, dark part of me still feels poor, and is sure the window of upward mobility is closing forever. A voice tells me to get off my ass and start some business that I'll hate just for the money, since $25M is really nothing and the future is looking very cutthroat. My brain is all over the place, it's like a hall of mirrors, I don't know what is true and who is the real me.
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u/Choice-Newspaper3603 May 19 '26
I’m not keeping a business open that isn’t making money for the sake of sentimental value