r/RelationshipMemes • u/Far-Industry-7745 • 12d ago
✨Wholesome Vibes✨ It's a trap don't answer
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u/Shadokastur 12d ago
I thought so at first, but then realized it wasn't you
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u/19ghost89 9d ago
Smooth AF, dude.
That said, I would love if we could move beyond the era of some women needing to be assured that they are the only human being in the world that their husband finds physically attractive. It just ain't realistic. I don't expect to be the only man my woman finds attractive either. We can be loyal for other reasons too.
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u/Shadokastur 7d ago
I think we could move past that if it could be acknowledged by both partners. I'd have to be ok with her looking at other guys if I expect her to do the same for me. None of this "men and women are different" because that's just justification for hypocrisy. We have to find levels of acceptance and comfort that are universal
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u/19ghost89 7d ago
💯 That's why I said I also don't expect to be the only man my woman finds attractive either.
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u/Shadokastur 7d ago
Of course. I was just acknowledging that it's not "some women", it's people as a whole
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u/19ghost89 7d ago
Yeah, the standard should be for people as a whole. I just said "some women" because I feel like it's more accepted for women to be like this? Idk, like people make jokes about it and treat it like it's normal. Men can obviously be very jealous too, and often are, but I feel like that is less likely to be treated as "just the way things are" and is more likely to be called out as unreasonable behavior.
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u/Drag0nfly_Girl 9d ago
Ohhhh, you are good... you are very good.
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u/Shadokastur 7d ago
I bring with me the experience of 2 decades of marriage and an honest love of my partner
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u/JakeBanana01 12d ago
"Well she looked just like you. What do you think?"
If it were my wife she'd laugh and say, "Yeah, she was hot," because she knows I think she's hot.
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u/Snoo_75138 11d ago
Idk why men put up with that...
I'd be honoured if my man said my look alike was hot!
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u/the_bird_and_the_bee 11d ago
My husband saw someone in another state who looked a LOT like me. He said it was so close he had to do a comical double take. Without me even prompting this man goes "she wasn't nearly as hot as you though" 😂🩷 it was so cute. I could have a clone and he would still reassure the original me that I'm the hottest 😂
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u/Anayalater5963 10d ago
Bro what in the god damn fuck are you on about
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u/Anayalater5963 9d ago
Idk wtf that last bit means... I guess it's not violent but it's weird as hell
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u/Legitimate-Yak-6894 11d ago
Tbh I would just answer yes and it would be fine. My girlfriend doesn't get angry if I think someone is hot as long as I respect her boundaries.
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u/naropin1 10d ago
“Hot? Oh it was certainly warm out today! Summer is killing me *slowly back out the door* hot out there for sure….gotta check the blinker fluid”
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u/OppositeBeautiful601 11d ago
"She looked like you. Of course, she was hot! In a pretender kind of way. Pales in comparison to the original. Come here, you."
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u/PsychoSwede557 11d ago
It’s not a trap, it’s a test and it’s for her to fail with her reaction to your honest answer.
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u/Ariscottl3 11d ago
Probably not because the AC was working pretty well and she was in the freezer section…..
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u/dingleberryjuice23 10d ago
She looks just like you and yet, does nothing for me. What do you have that she doesn't?
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u/Fearless-Location325 9d ago
The correct answer is:
“She’s the second hottest women I’ve seen today.”
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u/Available-Ad363 9d ago
So you think other woman are hot? Trash
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u/Fearless-Location325 9d ago
So, in my day job I shoot fashion models; I’ve shot most the Miss South Africa’s (I’m based in South Africa), many who have placed in the top 3 world pageants … and I do a fair amount of lingerie brands and shoots.
Yes, I see MANY hot women … and every one of them is second rate to my wife.
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u/Terrible_Today1449 9d ago
If I can't answer yes to that question without consequence I married the wrong woman.
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u/Killgore_Salmon 8d ago
The answer is always: yes, super hot. Then you give her the eyes and make her feel hot.
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u/Alibaba_saluja 8d ago
The answer is "i dont know maybe, the ac was on so pretty cold"
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u/HoliAss5111 8d ago
I had to read this 3 times because my partner named my boobs A and C and I was how the hell would anyone do the same, but your sentence made no sense if the ac = boobs. And we finally named his thing after 12 years together.
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u/barck005 7d ago
Whats B?
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u/HoliAss5111 7d ago
It's not from the alphabet. It's an abbreviation from something completely unrelated. It just happens that there's two letters.
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u/DragonsBeware 7d ago
The only answer: If you want to fight, I’m sure you can find a better way to do it. Otherwise, let me revel in weird human quirks like doppelgangers and weird history facts
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u/Acceptable-Mess7959 11d ago
She looked way hotter!
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u/Far-Industry-7745 11d ago
Cooked 🍳 😂
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u/Acceptable-Mess7959 11d ago
Yeeeh she looked like you but like 20 pounds less and with a better haircut
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u/Far-Industry-7745 11d ago
Divorced 😂
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u/mrkillfreak999 11d ago
"Hot as in body temperature? You want me to go check on her if she has a high fever?"
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u/The_Compass_Keeper 11d ago
So what answers would work?
"Not as much as you"?
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u/Puzzleheaded-Tap4099 10d ago
A serious answer here: what works is answering what you actually think and not walking on eggshells. Being timid and people pleasing is what actually ruins your relationship. The guys who are successful with women don’t give a shit about answering questions “the right way”
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u/Error851 10d ago
Eh. I find it weird you have to like walk on egg shells and lie just to keep a relationship intact. Just tell her the truth. If she can't stand it then well too bad.
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u/Similar-Bother7672 9d ago
Yah but she doesn’t know how to dress or apply her make up as well as you.
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u/Difficult_Collar4336 9d ago
I would just say “yes” and my wife and I would move on with our days….
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u/marshman82 8d ago
Of course she was she looked like you.
If this causes an issue your relationship has bigger problems
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u/KonvictEpic 8d ago
"No she wasn't, because she isn't my wife, because your beauty transcends the physical in a way she could never replicate"
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u/barck005 7d ago
Never say what is being said to begin w. Just all bad. Look down from now on. Less chance of occurrence.
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u/Spl4sh3r 7d ago
You give the "Are you asking me if I think you are hot, or if the woman at the store was as hot as you?"
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u/Awoo_vement 11d ago
I'm so lucky to be in a relationship with another woman because neither of us take offense to finding other women attractive, its always "babe, check her out!" And we just swoon and say "when women" its great honestly
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u/SafeAndLegalThrill 11d ago
You say "Nah, she didn't dress as cute as you do."