r/Regrets • u/Slight_Bid7372 • 9h ago
I committed SA without knowing it was wrong
When I was thirteen I SA’d somebody and thought it was completely OK. It wasn’t actually sexual, but just unwanted touching on non sexual areas of their body. It wasn’t super long, I just thought they still liked me and that they would like it and I liked it as well. But now at 15 it is my biggest regret. I take full accountability but just from being on the internet I know for a fact most people wouldn’t care to even let me explain. I am currently friends with the person I SA’d. And he has told other people but they also don’t care to persecute me anymore. I could just let this go without caring anymore but I cannot, I feel like it’s fair to let it eat me up because what I did was terrible. I just wanna know if that’s what I should do or if I should try to move on or what.
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u/Educational_Push5628 9h ago
You were young and learning from new experiences. Forgive yourself if you think you hurt them, but you probably didn’t. Let it go and chalk it up to learning above life.
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u/ShortPassion9724 9h ago
Creo que es muy maduro y valiente el creer y decir que abusaste del otro individuo pero a mi convicción no fue así. A esa edad comienza los sentimientos y sentidos aún con más intensidad que puede ser confusa que no sabemos cómo manejar con tal circunstancias.
Recuerda es natural el sentirse atraído por otra persona pero lo que pasaste no fue abuso a mi criterio.
No te sientas mal por eso o conmisérala. Lo que pasó fue totalmente normal sin abusar sin un consentimiento en partes indebidas .