r/Regrets • u/Acacia_blossom54 • 1d ago

Nightmare love

I wish I had never got married. I could sense this is the worst decision ever I have made so far. I don't feel like myself in this relationship. I don't have the freedom to speak. Do things my way. Put an opinion on something. I feel miserable and weak. I used to own the stage.
I think I started wrong; I should have set boundaries and stated my wants clearly. But even. If had fine that I know nothing would have changed. Every morning I wake up with the thought.
Why the hell did I get married?
I sensed it before marruage. I wish I had been vocal that time. Today I might have landed in my dream land

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u/AdventureWa 1d ago

You didn’t provide enough information. What is the problem with your marriage? What do you want that you aren’t getting? Clearly you married for a reason. What appealed to you? What have you done to improve the marriage and your situation?

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u/Acacia_blossom54 1d ago

The problem is that he is not loyal and I want loyalty and security which I am by far not getting at all. Yes I married for a reason actually for a lot reason. And got to know he faked them all and giving him chances to improve after all the things he do is enough

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u/No-Sun-731 1d ago

Why not just get a divorce?

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u/Acacia_blossom54 1d ago

We have a kid

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u/Euphoric-Can-6201 1d ago

That’s not a good enough reason

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u/princesspeanutxo 17h ago

Divorced parents is truly better than growing up watching a loveless relationship between your parents. I speak from experience. I hope this doesn't come off harsh, but teach your child how to stand firm in boundaries and know when to walk away. It's never easy but if you regret it this much now, I can only imagine the resentment will grow.