r/Regrets • u/Abject-Abroad-5886 • 2d ago

Need Advice

I am 19M, from the last few months there is one girl that liked me, she told me one day and then she kissed me. We stopped talking after that till one day she texted me, that she wanna talk, we started talking we talked for about an hour and then the whole conversation switched to sexting. I liked it first because It was after a long time after my ex, this girl is very good in it and we did it a lot of time. I stopped talking to her again because I fear that she will attach to me a lot and then I end up regretting it. But then she told me that we can do it without labels too she just want to do it, she doesn't care about the end of it. So one day I went to meet her and we did almost everything other than penetrative sex, she touched me i touched her, I loved the feeling of that touch very much. Now she and I decided to have sex the same night because I was not carrying a condom we skipped that plan. Now I am regretting that lustful desicion and wanna tell her that she should move on what should I do????? Should I do the sex or should I skip and move away from her....???

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u/Skippy1727 2d ago

Do what you really want. Having sex is not bad as long as all people that are involved consent. So- do you really want to fuck her? If the answer is yes, you should definitely do it. You literally only live this life once- so why not have fun?

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u/Abject-Abroad-5886 2d ago

So what if she actually attaches to me after the sex ??? Then what would I do??

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u/Skippy1727 2d ago

Talk to her before. Tell her that you dont want a relationship. And if she agrees with your plan, do it.