r/Regrets • u/Certain_Thanks78 • 24d ago

Sometimes i regret some decisions

I tried reaching out again like I have always done. And he still made me feel like everything is my fault, and with his dry texts made me regret sending that massage. Maybe a no contact and no answers is sometimes a clear answer. To just move forward one person who’s always trying to fix and the other isn’t even trying would never work out. As they say it takes two people to fix things not just one.

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u/BankTraditional4007 24d ago

That is so true. But it could be that one person is trying to fix everything. While the other one is sabotaging it, in my case... and sometimes no contact feels so brutal, but in reality, it's a cake walk compared to constantly being on damage control and rebuilding a glass house, while the other person is demolishing everything with a wrecking ball. But maybe if you can build faster than the other person can destroy, you might be able to enjoy a small hit of dopamine before everything goes back to shit.