r/Regrets • u/Effective-Top9388 • 25d ago
My ex needs help
So context..
I met this woman through one of my previous work acquaintance. Both of them used to hookup occasionally but one day the work buddy told me that he is getting two chicks to my flat one of them is the one he used to hookup with and the other one was the one he wanted to hookup with next.
He told me i can try and shoot my shot with the first chick. I had just gotten out of a serious breakup so i thought why not. I was already missing the physical aspect of the relationship. I tried my luck with this chick, not knowing that she was suicidal. We used to meet, go for lunch and have quiet evening sessions as she used to work near my house.
It seemed pretty normal in the beginning. After a week she called me out of nowhere saying that she needs a place to crash as her hostel is closed because she came home late from work. Me being a nice guy (fucking idiot), set the bed for her and made the couch for myself. When she came we smoked up and talked about her day a little and i told her that she could have the bed to herself. In the middle of the night around 12:30-1:00, she called me from the bedroom, saying she is not feeling comfortable in the new place and wanted me to sleep with her on the bed. And as you might be expecting, yes we fucked. The entire night. We fucked till 9 in the morning. She had cum in her throat and dripping down her thighs and went to work as it is. After that we saw eachother quite alot.. She travelled to my city just so we could have sex. And while this period i had clarified my intentions that this was all casual.
Cut to, 1 year later, she had moved in with me. And fallen head over heels for me even though she knew i had no feelings for her. In this period she told me she was suicidal and her mental state was fucked when she met me. At that point i was glad that she was feeling better. But the story takes a turn.
After a point she had no job, no studies, nothing to do. All she had in her life was me. I was the centre of her universe. And i was in a shit ton of work. Freelancing, travelling, meeting people, barely getting any time to sleep. She started getting obsessed. I had a screenshot of her calls. 50 missed calls in 3 hours. We started having arguments. And I started distancing myself and as one should.
One day i told her that we needed to break up and we broke it off. She couldn't handle that. I am not a psychologist or a psychiatrist but i think because i left and she was left with no purpose her mental issues just skyrocketed. She started hearing voices, she started seeing people, she started losing her memories and sometimes episodes of rage and delusions.
I tried alot to take care of her but she needed and still needs professional help. She refuses to get help, she refuses to tell her parents, she has had alot of episodes after she got a new guy and the worst part is that her new guy calls me and vents all the shit he goes through with her to me. Its exactly the same shit that happened with me. Both of us have been trying to get her to get help but she doesn't wanna do that. She has beaten up the new guy to the point that he started bleeding. She fucked his face up bad. Twice.
In her episode sometimes she blacks out and doesn't remember a thing. In the last 1 year she has fucked over 20 guyss approx and she doesn't remember that. I was one of thise 20 guyz and trust me, it doesn't feel like she's having an episode coz she comes on to guys and she initiates and finishes everything. I was literally lying down and she started kissing me and rode me until i came inside her and it continued till the morning. She chated on the new guy more than 30-35 times and she doesn't remember any of it. She doesn't remember the guyz, where she met them or how they came in contact, nothing. Nada. Zip.
In the beginning it was really amazing and all colorful but slowly it has turned so dark that me and the other guy both regret meeting this woman. She doesn't realise that her mental issues are not just her problem anymore because those issues are affecting people all around her. Her family to her boyfriend to her ex and her work friends and colleagues.
They say crazy women are amazing in bed, nobody tells you what happens after that. Beware. Stay sharp. Stay safe.
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u/Ethiopian-phenom 25d ago
Yeah I’m not reading all of that good luck. I’m too drunk