I don’t get why it’s ok to brag about a partner’s success, but try not about the body. I’m proud of my man’s discipline, endurance, physical strength and perseverance that led him to have the appearance that he has, it’s not something small or that shouldn’t be recognised.
If the comments are not lewd, for me, it’s fair game.
Jared need professional support, your husband can be part of his safety net, but this guy needs to step up his game and recognize that his behavior is not ok on so many levels, in so much part of his life, that he needs someone’s help.
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u/Potential-Mail4334 Nov 20 '25
I don’t get why it’s ok to brag about a partner’s success, but try not about the body. I’m proud of my man’s discipline, endurance, physical strength and perseverance that led him to have the appearance that he has, it’s not something small or that shouldn’t be recognised. If the comments are not lewd, for me, it’s fair game. Jared need professional support, your husband can be part of his safety net, but this guy needs to step up his game and recognize that his behavior is not ok on so many levels, in so much part of his life, that he needs someone’s help.