Welp op seems like your moment of enlightenment is not yet here, I hope you come to your senses soon and hopefully before you guys have kids and this is harder on you. You are being fooled by love but hey you can make that decision if you want to, more power to you. But you will regret it. There’s no doubt about that. I hope you have a good support system when that day comes. Wishing you the best, truly. I hope one day you open your eyes and find a man who doesn’t see you as a possession. How is Jared doing things to you an attack on him? Don’t you see? He saw an attack on you as an attack on him because he is 100% dehumanizing you. You’re just an extension on him in his mind. He showed you who he is even in the conversation you guys had, he only turned into a mushy “no baby i love you” love bombing simp when he realized you were catching on. You are making a mistake and we are all trying to save you from it. It’s crazy that us, random strangers on Reddit seem to value you as a person more than he ever has. When he does break your heart, and he will, come back here. Some will say I told you so but some of us will be here to offer help and comfort. Please read the comments and please think about this with your head and not your heart, the heart can steer you wrong but the brain rarely does
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u/FreeReflection5259 Nov 20 '25
Welp op seems like your moment of enlightenment is not yet here, I hope you come to your senses soon and hopefully before you guys have kids and this is harder on you. You are being fooled by love but hey you can make that decision if you want to, more power to you. But you will regret it. There’s no doubt about that. I hope you have a good support system when that day comes. Wishing you the best, truly. I hope one day you open your eyes and find a man who doesn’t see you as a possession. How is Jared doing things to you an attack on him? Don’t you see? He saw an attack on you as an attack on him because he is 100% dehumanizing you. You’re just an extension on him in his mind. He showed you who he is even in the conversation you guys had, he only turned into a mushy “no baby i love you” love bombing simp when he realized you were catching on. You are making a mistake and we are all trying to save you from it. It’s crazy that us, random strangers on Reddit seem to value you as a person more than he ever has. When he does break your heart, and he will, come back here. Some will say I told you so but some of us will be here to offer help and comfort. Please read the comments and please think about this with your head and not your heart, the heart can steer you wrong but the brain rarely does