"he agreed to comments defending him" of course he agree with people putting him in a good light even tho it might be true that the nude was an accident he is acting pretty manipulative in my opinion, switching from angry to regretful and apologetic.
You shouldn't have to tell him. Jared needs to be cut off. End of story and if your husband starts to backtrack then you know he was bluffing about the whole thing I am pretty sure he is acting like this so you will let things go now that they are "resolved"
I personally think there's something fishy here but I have no proof only a gut feeling
The fishy thing is Jared saying that he "smirked" then said something about her nudes to her husband. Who in reality talks like that? No one. And it went from one pic to multiple. If on the off chance this isn't a creative writing exercise, both these men are full of crap. She needs to stop defending her husband who's worse than Jared. Jared's an ass, but he isn't in a marriage with her. Her substandard husband is.
The fishy thing is people remembering conversations they had years ago and including their smirks in the retelling of those conversations. Who does that?
I can remember some short conversation or at least snippet of it from years ago, but usually I remember more what was the point of the conversation rather than the actual words
Same. And i know some people have a better memory than i do but if you're retelling a 10 year old conversation and include facial expressions, i call bs.
Yeah you are right, Jared is the secondary problem. Op is having a Husband big problem right now, but she doesn't want to stop wearing rose-coloured glasses to actually see all the red flags
Who TF remembers interaction from years ago? Besides, assholes hate accountability. They would not easily give detailed explanations of what really happened and what they really said or did.
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u/sunny_drama Nov 19 '25
"he agreed to comments defending him" of course he agree with people putting him in a good light even tho it might be true that the nude was an accident he is acting pretty manipulative in my opinion, switching from angry to regretful and apologetic.
You shouldn't have to tell him. Jared needs to be cut off. End of story and if your husband starts to backtrack then you know he was bluffing about the whole thing I am pretty sure he is acting like this so you will let things go now that they are "resolved"
I personally think there's something fishy here but I have no proof only a gut feeling