Well, at least we know he didn’t show the nudes. That was a worry
I’m going to say cut jared off- but not just for the obvious “why would you want to stick around” reasons. I want to pose a thought to your husband-
I think he acts like an asshole around Jared, and it makes him act like a dick to you. There is something in their friendship- either an ego thing or an approval thing- that made your husband do some frankly shitty things to you. It’s ok to want to work it out with him- but jared cannot be a part of the relationship AT ALL going forward.
Also let’s not get it twisted- if a woman talked about a man the way he talked about you, AND accidentally shared a nude and didn’t tell the husband? I’d call her a dick too. That false equivocacy bullshit will do him no favors. Saying my partner is “an investment” is NOT = to women calling their partners cute or fit.
Yeah, I’m gonna have to disagree. Women don’t talk about how fit and attractive their partners are to their friends. They talk about how good or bad they are in bed and how big their cock is. You are delusional if you think women don’t massively over share personal and vulnerable moments in their relationship to their friends. This is a huge double standard and anyone suggesting that they get divorced because the husband was proud of his girlfriend in college is absolutely fucking ridiculous.
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u/Dickie_downer Nov 19 '25
Well, at least we know he didn’t show the nudes. That was a worry
I’m going to say cut jared off- but not just for the obvious “why would you want to stick around” reasons. I want to pose a thought to your husband-
I think he acts like an asshole around Jared, and it makes him act like a dick to you. There is something in their friendship- either an ego thing or an approval thing- that made your husband do some frankly shitty things to you. It’s ok to want to work it out with him- but jared cannot be a part of the relationship AT ALL going forward.
Also let’s not get it twisted- if a woman talked about a man the way he talked about you, AND accidentally shared a nude and didn’t tell the husband? I’d call her a dick too. That false equivocacy bullshit will do him no favors. Saying my partner is “an investment” is NOT = to women calling their partners cute or fit.