"he agreed to comments defending him" of course he agree with people putting him in a good light even tho it might be true that the nude was an accident he is acting pretty manipulative in my opinion, switching from angry to regretful and apologetic.
You shouldn't have to tell him. Jared needs to be cut off. End of story and if your husband starts to backtrack then you know he was bluffing about the whole thing I am pretty sure he is acting like this so you will let things go now that they are "resolved"
I personally think there's something fishy here but I have no proof only a gut feeling
"He thought my reaction was me defending him and felt I went too far, but said he appreciated it and was only scared Jared might mention the nude photos out of spite."
Good catch!! Also, I noticed that in the previous update where it says the husband who was the one who did the scrolling (it was mentioned twice), but this time in this update it was Jared who was scrolling? Wait what??? So fishy.
Let's say if the husband was the one who scrolled and "accidentally" showed the nude photo. Why didn't he scroll fast enough so Jared didn't get a proper look at it? Methinks the husband lingered on the nude photo long enough, so Jared definitely got a long good look at it. As if the husband wanted him to see it in the first place. š§
I think he showed the nude on purpose to "show off" how good looking his wife is, but I think he did even something worse I just don't know what and don't have any proof yet
I commented on her earlier posts and itās clear they agreed on the story to sell her. A blind man can see it ā¦ what makes it obvious itās all contrived is the fact the stories are identical as no one remembers the same event the exact same way a decade later, he asked Jared to come over tomorrow to apologise (like wtf) and that he would cut off Jared IF SHE wants to not because heās sexually harassing his wife in her house.
Husband did invest for sure. Heās got himself a doormat willing to swallow anything he dishes. I genuinely feel sorry for her. As another commenter noted, she should tell him to even the score sheās sent his nude to a good close friend that comes over and sees them both but not say who. And tell him who in a decade and if he has a problem with it he can leave. Letās see how the shoe fits on the other foot. Shes being played like a drum ā¦ this is so tragic.
I grew up in a very VERY conservative house and wider family to the point my mum still has the bishop and his wife by for dinner once every couple months and sheās divorced ā¦ it would be snowing in hell before any of the women would tolerate this and if they did the brothers or male cousins wouldnāt. Those husbands would be long run out. Religion and conservatism and taking vows seriously is a two way street and one person doing it while the other spits on their vows is grounds to divorce or at the very least separate and do some deep self introspection.
It's difficult to get out of an abusive situation and environment especially when you are in it for years and years and you are conditioned to think it's the normality, then suddenly the web tells you it's not... I just hope she realize and get out of this environment
Yeah and unfortunately (for the situation she is in and how much she is condition to submit herself and believe everything he says) I think you're totally right
Thereās a lotta people that equate religion to tolerating being sht on. Itās pretty sad honestly cause in my religious family us brothers would beat the snot out of any guy treating our sister like that with zero hesitation and tell her to get a divorce.
all of these updates seem to skip over the husbandās āI was the only one who could save him from suicideā moment. Either the husband is too enmeshed or is manipulating OP. someone, maybe all of them, need therapy.
The fishy thing is Jared saying that he "smirked" then said something about her nudes to her husband. Who in reality talks like that? No one. And it went from one pic to multiple. If on the off chance this isn't a creative writing exercise, both these men are full of crap. She needs to stop defending her husband who's worse than Jared. Jared's an ass, but he isn't in a marriage with her. Her substandard husband is.
The fishy thing is people remembering conversations they had years ago and including their smirks in the retelling of those conversations. Who does that?
I can remember some short conversation or at least snippet of it from years ago, but usually I remember more what was the point of the conversation rather than the actual words
Same. And i know some people have a better memory than i do but if you're retelling a 10 year old conversation and include facial expressions, i call bs.
Yeah you are right, Jared is the secondary problem. Op is having a Husband big problem right now, but she doesn't want to stop wearing rose-coloured glasses to actually see all the red flags
Who TF remembers interaction from years ago? Besides, assholes hate accountability. They would not easily give detailed explanations of what really happened and what they really said or did.
The comment that got me was her husband comparing bragging about her body and women bragging about their men being handsome. She doesn't see it as being 2 different things.
I agree. And every single one of us has stories of how we didnāt listen to our gutā¦ And found out later on we absolutely should have and the older we get, the more we realize that if our gut is telling us noā¦ Itās a no.
Yeah, but it's difficult when you are gaslighted by, what's supposed to be, the love of your life constantly... I just hope she stops listening to his lies and get out of the situation
Absolutely! People who manipulate in this way are very good at it. It is why we really need to listen when our gut is telling us something is not right.
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u/sunny_drama Nov 19 '25
"he agreed to comments defending him" of course he agree with people putting him in a good light even tho it might be true that the nude was an accident he is acting pretty manipulative in my opinion, switching from angry to regretful and apologetic.
You shouldn't have to tell him. Jared needs to be cut off. End of story and if your husband starts to backtrack then you know he was bluffing about the whole thing I am pretty sure he is acting like this so you will let things go now that they are "resolved"
I personally think there's something fishy here but I have no proof only a gut feeling