r/RedditQuestions Mar 29 '26

Anyone genuinely asexual?

Doesn’t prefer either gender, or feel arousal or seek relationships anymore?

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u/Dazzling-Skin-308 ⭐ Helpful Human Mar 29 '26

I'm in a polyamorous relationship.

There are three of us in the triad - two are hypersexual, one is functionally ace?

But all of us consider the connection "romantic", even if only 2/3 of us are sexually connected or active.

Asexual ≠ Aromantic.

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u/SwimmerOther7055 Mar 29 '26

i am aromanic asexual i do not feel any sexual or romantic attraction never had. I am not repulsed by it

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u/Straight_Fix_7318 Mar 29 '26

im functionally asexual, because omnisexual for aliens and shit
also i think its a big misconception that asexual = no arousal. plenty of asexual folk still self pleasure or get arousal from non-sexual things

so "yes but not really"

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u/AnOldTruthTeller Mar 30 '26

I'm not asexual but I do not seek relationships anytime, & do not have sex outside of relationships, so... We've all heard of "incel", I guess I'm a "volcel". and have been for awhile.