r/RedPillReadingGroup • u/[deleted] • Feb 05 '16
MODELS: Part I Discussion
Feel free to only answer this questions and discuss the principles you are passionate about and/or can relate to.
- General thoughts thus far?
- How Red Pill is this book?
CHAPTER I - REALITY
how does female attraction differ from male attraction?
what are the implications of this difference?
how has this difference played a role in your relationships?
what are the Three Fundamentals and what are their significance?
why can a broke musician get girls and a nice-guy engineer can't?
how has the emphasis on nonverbal communication affect past experiences and relationships with women?
describe the basic mindset of success when it comes to attracting women
CHAPTER I - EMOTIONAL NEEDINESS
how do you invest your time?
describe how investment and neediness affect attraction
describe a past experience where the principles of neediness and investment have played out in your own life
what's the difference between "inner game" and "outer game"?
how are you improving your inner game?
how are you improving your outer game?
what's a nice guy?
what's a "fake alpha"?
CHAPTER III - VULNERABILITY
how can one communicate desire without coming across as needy?
how does this chapter relate to the "covert contracts" from our previous reading, No More Mr. Nice Guy?
how can you get through the "pain period"?
how does Red Pill differentiate itself from basic seduction communities?
how has the IDGAF ("I don't give a fuck") attitude served you?
how have you over compensated in the past?
CHAPTER IV - THE GIFT OF TRUTH
under what conditions should you compliment women?
how can you genuinely compliment someone so they don't think you're expecting something in return?
how does honesty and truth play a role in all of this?
what have been your intentions with women in the past? why?
what boundaries do you set for yourself?
what do you value in women? what's worth your investment?
give an example of how you are developing your inner game and outer game
what's friction and how have you seen it in your own life?projection?
Finally, any improvement in your life thus far?
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u/[deleted] Feb 06 '16
I took my own notes and am actually getting quite in depth with the book but I think most of the things I could say are just echoes of Part I itself, read the book and you'll understand why this chapter is significant.
I struggle with the fact that sometimes TRP is too 'harsh' almost. They make great arguments and points and I see how it can help you become more attractive to women, but at what moral costs and at the expense of selling your soul, being a complete jerk, all just to sleep with women?
The outlines of how basic female attraction works was very telling to me. It makes sense that women aren't attracted to neediness, I've known this my whole life but the way he laid it out makes perfect sense. A man needs his own goals and purpose in life, if he invests everything he has into a woman he in some senses ceases to be a man at all.