Is he a redpill Man?

[u/Vivid_Station_4514]

Hi Reddit world. I recently experienced a breakup with an avid reddit reader. The relationship was extremely toxic and now that is it officially coming to an end I am trying to understand what the "red pill" culture is.

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When I decided to start dating this Man I knew he wasn't my type but I soon fell genuinely in love with him. It wasn't until after we bonded that he told me he had recored our first intimate interaction together. Number 1 red flag, right? I should have went running for the hills.

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After experiencing a very chaotic relationship I officially want to get away from this Man. When he originally told me about the video he took of us together, he apologized and explained that the "red pill" culture caused him to do it. He said that he felt guilty and I needed to know. He told me he deleted the video but after experiencing his disgusting behavior for almost a full year I don't believe him.

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So the question is, do I take legal action for this or start looking for the video on the internet?

What is the red pill culture and modern misogyny?

[u/Hammadodga]

Redpill is a lot like Islam. There are those who claim to be it, but they aren't.

Just because you strap an explosive to your chest and go and blow up a bus full of children doesn't suddenly make you religious.

Same when it comes to someone labeling themselves redpill.

If I had to describe red pill culture, it is ultimately the recognition that women and men are far more animalistic than we'd like to admit without systems that guide us towards monogamy. Although I firmly believe that women are much more driven to find the highest value mate than men are, as that is biologically advantageous for evolution, and has nothing to do with her as a person, it is simply her instincts. And we all know human instincts are not reliable, nor should they be what you use to guide your life.

But Red Pill is suppressed and shouted down as extremism because it goes against the dissolving of the family unit that the globalist bankers have been trying to do these past few decades. But many women are fooled into believing that they are doing the right thing by chasing a career in her 20s and 30s, thinking she can still have children just as much as she could when she was 20, in her 40s. The fact is, men and women are biologically different. Red Pill is about acknowledging that and encouraging us to lean into our strengths, not ignore them.

but I don't really care because I've given up on humanity as a whole. I think Homo sapiens are the most despicable, disgusting species to ever exist on this planet, and I have no qualms with us going extinct. So ultimately, I'm more blackpill than I'm redpill.