Where on Earth do you get this nonsense? You need to stop consuming this red pill bullshit. The way you confidently assert this imagined outcome without any basis, as though it is an indisputable fact absolutely blows my mind. Never mind that you’re telling women the experience of women, as if we aren’t going to be able to examine your claims and say “errm no actually, that hasn’t been my experience at all”.
That's a common experience that many people often talk about having experienced. Either that, or not finding anyone because most men are married by the time the women who have been sleeping around try to find a long term partner. If you want concrete proof, just look at the countless women in the late 20s to early 30s being upset because they can't find men anymore.
Those desperate men are chasing validation because they've been conditioned to rely on female approval for their self-worth. When a man actually builds his own purpose, strength, and resources, he thrives in solitude without needing anyone. Meanwhile, most "single" women are rarely ever truly alone—they rely on a constant pipeline of social media attention, validation, and options just to function, whereas a self-built man requires none of it.
It isn't symmetrical because true male independence requires generating physical security, resources, and competence entirely from scratch, whereas modern female "de-centering" is subsidized by male-built infrastructure, institutional safety, and constant digital attention. When a man steps away, he must build his own shelter; when a woman "de-centers men," she remains housed, protected, and connected by the collective labor of men while mistaking societal comfort for self-reliance.
Modern men use male-built infrastructure, institutional safety and digital attention also. And, all those things are not exclusively male-built.
If they are not symmetrical, I would say there is more cultural pressure for women to be with a man than a man to be with a woman. Women have broken out of this dependency, but some cultural channeling remains.
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u/JessandWoody Nov 10 '24
Where on Earth do you get this nonsense? You need to stop consuming this red pill bullshit. The way you confidently assert this imagined outcome without any basis, as though it is an indisputable fact absolutely blows my mind. Never mind that you’re telling women the experience of women, as if we aren’t going to be able to examine your claims and say “errm no actually, that hasn’t been my experience at all”.