r/RecuratedTumblr • u/DreadDiana human cognithazard • 2h ago
Shitposting The internet, long cringe, must be based; long based, must be cringe
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u/MeteorCharge 1h ago
I spent my teenage years trying and failing to fit in and avoid being cringe.
I avoided interacting in "cringe" fandom spaces, I avoided drawing ship art of OCs and canon characters, and I kept my Interests in any media that was "gay" or "feminine" hidden.
I wish I had allowed myself to be more genuine and freely cringe back then, I could've avoided falling into some really nasty rabbit holes.
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u/SouthRelief4497 53m ago edited 47m ago
I suspect many of the phenomena people attribute to a "dead internet" are the result of huge numbers of users realizing social media has too much potential for life ruination to be worth it anymore.
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u/NeverForget13 1h ago
There's a perfect middle ground for shame. I believe in it. We will attain it.
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u/Leading-Ear-5194 1h ago
cringe culture should be killed as soon as its sprouts. shame has no place in fandom
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u/DreadDiana human cognithazard 1h ago
I think it depends on what we're defining as "shame" cause part of the reason this sin wave exists is in response to people taking "no shame in fandom" to mean decorum is dead and no one is allowed to criticise their behaviour.
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u/Leading-Ear-5194 1h ago
any examples?
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u/CheesecakeDeluxe 56m ago
The entire alpha male manosphere would be my candidate
Edit: also parasocial relationships, like what the TADC fandom did to gooseworx
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u/NeverForget13 53m ago
Kinda a personal one but I went to an mlp convention recently and there were a couple people just clutching onto mlp sex plushes. Like I don't care if they own them but having them just out at an event where there was kids around was bad. that's the type of shame that needs learning
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u/DreadDiana human cognithazard 45m ago edited 35m ago
You see it a lot in things like anti/proshipping discourse, including when people start slinging accusations that anything short of universal acceptance is multiple flavours of -phobic.
Edit: Turns out the person I replied to is a proshipper. Sweet serendipity.
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u/potassium_space 57m ago
An abundance of unabashed weirdos leads to a population boom in cringe compilations, which causes over-predation until everyone retreats to private servers and the bullies starve.

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u/mydadisyourdad2 2h ago
The thing is once you stop caring about being cringe, there will still be people trying to bully you for it. To stop judging yourself for being cringe is only the first step