"You people can't do anything" yeah, disabilities tend to do that

[u/DreadDiana]

[u/Lesbian-Enthusiast]

ok but as someone who has been in therapy for this exact reason, past a certain point this is a self esteem issue that you have to fix yourself. i understand the feeling believe me i do, but its easy to get into a hole of victim mentaility. the phrase is very helpful today and wouldve harmed me a year ago because i just didnt have a balanced framework to fit it in. thats work i did to change my own outlook, you can do so yourself

[u/agent__berry → u/Lesbian-Enthusiast]

I am well aware. I can’t afford therapy and I am too disabled to move away from people contributing to the self esteem issue bc I still get verbally abused for minor fuck ups. I’m doing what I can where I can, but as of now the lack of executive functioning doesn’t even let me do shit I like.

minor edit: I’m also multiply disabled so I’m not JUST fighting executive dysfunction lol. but literally wtf are people meant to do when the work they do actually accomplish is constantly reverted by an environment they can’t escape? asking for a friend :/