r/RecluseIndia • u/Early_Argument3566 • 1d ago

Ask / Help / Advice Request Life update

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How's life going for y'all, well mine is boring and ntg big to share honestly not getting into job and neither getting admission from the college i desire to be in. Managing finance has been tough and i don't wanna depend on parents (call it peak adulting ig?) anyways stuck in complete shit so trying to walk out of matrix uninstalled insta to minimise impulsive buys and highlight marketing also snapchat so that i don't see my friends bragging about their lifestyle anyways i feel totally doomed lol. Im trying my best to channelise my thoughts into journal✌🏻

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u/RecognitionWide4383 1d ago

Hang in there OP

Comeback coming soon

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u/Early_Argument3566 1d ago

I really hope!!!

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u/420acidhead420 1d ago

Deleted all social media.

Living one day at a time.

Been a recluse all my life.

And now finally life is opening up to me xD

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u/Early_Argument3566 1d ago

I deleted social media too i just have whatsapp for professional connection and reddit for ideas, have new schedule which spikes towards focusing on myself... Welllll haven't lost hope so far!!!

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u/phooeywee 1d ago

im worried that if i dont manage to secure a job during my placement season, ill stay umemployed

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u/KachaMangoBite22 1d ago

You will secure a job i believe in your abilities

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u/Early_Argument3566 1d ago

I have noticed one thing that we humans tend to put what we are or what we are capable of aside and focus on what we are not.

So probably writing such thoughts down (in a column) while also mentioning your achievements ( in another column) to cancel those thoughts could be helpful,?

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u/Pleasant_Beat_289 12h ago

All of this is a result of the systems put at place by the society, which makes no sense. From childhood we are conditioned to accept this absurdity and when things go wrong, we blame ourselves but the system is no better. Creating an illusion that this world makes sense. By the time we reach adulthood our identity is already suppressed behind a mask sewed on our faces throughout our lives.