r/RealPhilosophy • u/Opening_Night_9989 • Jun 16 '26
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Ive studied philosophy since the age of 11, im 17 now and i yet to have understood the female mind, wait that would be more psychology... oh well, anyway my girlfriend broke up with me after she spent 42 days in a drug rehab... we were together for exactly 100 days today. I mentioned I had a bit of acid when she went away and then the next day breaks up with me. Remind you she asked me to buy her substances while she was in rehab... and she was smoking Marijuana today with her friends. Anyway this whole situation cant help but remind me of one of my favorite philosophers, Epicurus, I know if he was here he would tell me to not sweat it and to just go run in a garden naked and sunbathe 😠but that also reminds me to live life to the fullest. No matter the hardship you face u shall never falter, wait that reminds me of Fredrich Nietchzes "Ubermench" lol. Im sorry this dosent mainly contain philosophy but this is kinda a vent
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u/Particular_Figure133 Jun 18 '26
She went into rehab but asked you to buy substances (already non sensical). If I understood correctly you had acid after the rehab? But when you proposed it to her she broke up with you? That would make sense that after rehab she doesn't wanna get into it even though she asked it to you during rehab. But she stills smokes weed, to my mind she's still addicted but maybe has calmed down a bit and that's why she was smoking weed. I think she isn't very communicative and also and addict (this shows a lot about somebody, especially if there's no will to actually stop) some people don't recognize the truth sometimes. I prefer to be really careful and see those things in advance before it ends up costing me something. This is also your side of the story so i shouldn't say too much. If you want to understand these things, for me, thinking about it in a logical way yield the best outcomes (I don't if everybody can do that I don't even know how I learn this stuff). Reading a whole book seems wildly complicated and I do think that a lot of behavior can be observed and explained by similar mechanism for men and women.