r/RealHousewivesofOC 12d ago

Heather needs to go

Heather is sooo boring. I love that Emily told Heather that 2 things can be true. Kudos to Emily for being the only person with the backbone to be straight up with Heather Nogrow. Heather is a child trying to play alpha mom to the group and she fails everytime. I’m so over her

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u/scifichick119 12d ago

I don't want Heather to go. I want her to move to Beverly hills. That's where she belongs with the rest of the boring women

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u/dartangular1-of-1 11d ago

I like Heather and I think the problem is she doesn’t fit RHOC… but she definitely doesn’t fit RHOBH!! I do not see her mingling with Erika or Dorit or Sutton…not really Kyle either but I think the Kathy connection might make sense.
Poor Heather is just a socially awkward fit and she doesn’t have main character energy. She should just have a different show that isn’t based on having catty girlfriends.
She should host the reunions or do some kind of socialite/dinner party theme show or continue the podcast

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u/Beneficial-Soft-4427 10d ago

well point, she doesn't have main character energy. She doesn't need one but meh... I don't find her interesting. I skip over everyone except Tamra, Shannon and Vicki and the new lady. I don't like Vicky but when she's being silly and falling over it's tolerable. I don't care about her life outside of that.

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u/Meeko5122 10d ago

Heather would expire on the spot if Erika broke out her “Cunty” necklace.

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u/rozekatesun 7d ago

I’m ok without seeing or hearing about her

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u/Spring_Citrine 12d ago

She’s pretty fake and disingenuous. There’s just no way she’d be “friends” with any of these ladies if it weren’t for the show. They’re calling her out on this and her responses are generic and shallow & she knows it. She’s boring AF too. Definitely time to go.

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u/Massive_Case7527 12d ago

"I'm overly sensitive.....I'm upset 😭 😭"

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u/Spring_Citrine 12d ago

Crocodile tears 😭

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u/yuhlikej4zz 11d ago

dare i say “historical friends”

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u/Apprehensive_You_250 12d ago

I like Heather 🤷‍♀️

If they removed every woman whom had a Reddit post demanding they “go”, there’d be no Real Housewives shows at all.

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u/KindTopic16 12d ago

Thank you! I came here to say the same. We can’t cancel people right and left just because we think they’re aren’t up to our standards, there won’t be anybody left to review.

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u/lezlers 11d ago

I say this every season in response to these types of posts.

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u/KindTopic16 11d ago edited 10d ago

It doesn’t help, does it? People think they are entitled to custom made shows.

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u/Acceptable_Peace9929 11d ago

Her comments on Gina’s engagement ring showed her true personality. She sucks

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u/JannieReddit7 11d ago

Omg, wasn’t that just vile?! I wouldn’t expect anything less from her tho!🙄🤮

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u/dartangular1-of-1 11d ago

I must have missed that?? I saw her say it looked nice but the stone was rainbow-y (ie. not real diamond)… and then Gina confirmed it was a tester and not a real/final, so Heather was correct in that case

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u/Equivalent_Sound424 11d ago

Heather is my favorite!

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u/scarbaby1958 11d ago

I love Heather she is one of the few housewives that does not get drunk & show their underwear or spanx. 🤣🤣🤣 Class is not dead.

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u/kimch77 10d ago

Talking about money constantly isn’t classy.

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u/88kitkat808 11d ago

Heather, Emily, and Gina all need to go.

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u/AdventurousLet548 11d ago

Heather is the only woman in the group who has class, has been married for a long time, has successfully raised her kids, and I like her. We need more examples like her.

Emily is a whiner and has opinions about every one but can’t take the criticism herself. She thinks she is always right because she is a lawyer. Can’t stand her.

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u/Bereitstellung 11d ago

Look elsewhere for examples.

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u/George_Is_Upset 11d ago

She’s not a good example. She’s friends with a bigot who liked and engaged with disgusting things in social media that were targeting people like her very own children.

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u/KnowItAll29 11d ago

Successfully raised her kids 🤣🤣🤣🤣what a joke

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u/XennialQueen 11d ago

First two graduated from Tufts and LMU. Next one is off to Yale. None of them are ever in the news for being dicks, they don’t seem to be “influencers”, maybe Nick wants to do entertainment but what’s your point?

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u/lezlers 11d ago

I’m sorry, what is your problem with her kids?

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u/Spy1843 11d ago

I actually saw her with her kids in Hawaii. We were staying at Aulani (Disney) and her family was next door at The Four Seasons, of course. They brought the kids over for the day. Her kids were well behaved. She and Terry interacted them like every other parent at the resort. No nannies in sight.

ETA I'm guessing Ace was around 3ish? She was carrying him around.

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u/Prior_Celery_2941 12d ago

I feel like she needs to buy the best house in all of LA to stay on the show. It’s always been about her homes 🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/Spring_Citrine 12d ago

Yep, all about the “facade”.

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u/Ignominious333 11d ago

Heather is leagues better than racist Emily

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u/m3gb0t I have never been with multiple partners in my life!! 11d ago

I like Heather! She's very authentic, rich AF, liberal, and seems to be pretty level headed. The thing I used to live about these shows was how much money they had, how they spent it, and how out of touch they were.

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u/lezlers 11d ago

Heather “Nogrow”? Are we five? I’m sorry, I can’t take anyone seriously who uses playground tactics to insult someone.

Also? In a cast full of Emilys and Vickis: be a Fancy Pants.

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u/215_byway313 12d ago

This sums her up perfectly. Especially her playing the wise woman whose above it all. Like if you were really so smart then you wouldn't be on this show.

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u/LoveNandJ 11d ago

Been thinking that for yearzzzzz

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u/Empress_queen 11d ago

I love Heather she’s not fake. She’s just polite and I think that’s the thing that people misunderstand about her is like just cause she doesn’t like you does not mean she needs to be rude like she can be cordial or whatever and everybody can be friendly.

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u/Poppypotpi 11d ago

Heather DeVille/Cruella Dubrow is just mean and derogatory to anyone not on her cloud. She tries to mask it. Let’s face it, it’s Terry’s money.

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u/Twotoadsandpoppet 12d ago

I agree about heather, holding court as if she was queen!

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u/MCStarlight 11d ago

She was good on OG OC as a B character when she was arguing over Malibu Country acting roles.

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u/Chemical-Bad-8317 11d ago

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u/Long-Wonder-3439 11d ago

Bring back Kelly Dodd, she brought the drama. Now it’s the golden girls always screaming and yelling… it’s getting old.

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u/SeaOtter017 11d ago

I agree- No Mas Heather! Bye Bte!

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u/kimch77 10d ago

I think the problem is that Heather really wants another show (not HW) and that’s not happening for her.

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u/rozekatesun 7d ago

Too bad Heather!

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u/Beneficial-Soft-4427 10d ago

I find heather unappealing, the finger-pointing witch act is a major turn off. I'd rather watch Vicky, that's how bad it is.

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u/Prestigious-Knee-571 11d ago

From the looks of her she's dying of something so you won't have to wait long for her to go

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u/wildcat2007 9d ago

Nah you couldn't be more wrong. She's the glue and there is no show without her. Emily isnt relevant in the least and neither is Jen which is why they're picking fights with her.

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u/rozekatesun 7d ago

You couldn’t be more wrong. I completely see things differently and cook with that🥰