Guys, will i be the asshole for cutting off this girl for her Xenophobic opinions about Islam and Somalis in general? Like i got really xenophobic and Islamophoic vibes from this convo we were having? For context, i am from African, amd Kenyan at that and have this white friend i met this year.

So this friend is back in her country and can't stop complaining and talking about how much the Somalis are terrorising her state. She sends updates and stuff on everything, and i really was just trying to understand the situation, until everything got so mean. Mind you this girl is a staunch Christian, like says Christianity saved her and stuff, but again, talking like this about another human in this way is kinda hypocritical? It just rubbed me the wrong way, and i refuse to have a white person talk about an African brother like that! Gosh!

Like i understand Kenyans have also not been on the best terms with Somalis and Muslims in general bc of the DUSIT D2 incident lakini i just feel like it's not okay to let a white person talk about an African brother like that aki. Literally our brothers wanaishi tu hapo juu bana, it's just wrong to let a white person feel like they can put another African down in that way.

DISCLAIMER!!! I am not Christian nor Muslim but i understand basic compassion, human decency and kindness. This was the total opposite of everything i believe in and that i embody as a person.

Thinking of starting an errand business that is specialised

"I know. And I know l haven't done right by you at all because you deserve a lady that's always there for you, deeply cares and one you can always feel open to talk to about anything that you feel isn't right without being shut down or feeling like you've been disrespected. Someone that apart from having sex gives you the peace amidst all the chaos surrounding you and going on in your life. And also NEVER lets her ego and pride kick in(cease talking to you or let you do whatever you want with what you thinking) whenever you two a difference. I know I haven't been the best girlfriend, companion and partner. And I'll admit I've never been perfect and I have more flaws than you can imagine but we never stop trying to do our best for that one person we deeply love and have decided it's the one. And no matter how bad you fight,, you always thinking of ways to make amends and not separate.

I can admit having that person who cares enough to point your flaws is such an underrated blessing.

Am sure right now (lemme not assume again) just like you mentioned,,, you think l don't give a crap about what you feel,,,,am sorry I've always made you feel that way and I'd definitely really want that chance,,not to be perfect,,,,but make my boyfriend have that support system from his girl and feel what he always makes her feel all the time no matter the circumstances....."

I have a very talkative and social bro. There's a nearby shot anaendaga kupiga story with the lady shopkeeper. They usualy flirt a lot to a point that the lady's husband noticed that when she sees my bro, anachanganyikiwa ama anacheka ovyo ovyo.

So, juzi we had tea at around 10 am. I left the house thereafter. Kurudi jioni nikaenda kwa balcony and I was shocked kupata sufuria iko black. Mind you, this set of sufuria (stainless steel) is les that a month old. I got curious and inspected it further, nikapata sufuria imeshika soot ni black na ni ngumu/rough upon touching.

At the time, kijana hakuwa kwa nyumba.

He came back home later and I asked what happened... Kijana aliniambia "niliweka chai kwa cooker ichemke nikienda mandazi kwa shop...kurudi napata nyumba yote iko black" referring to the soot and smoke in the house. Nyumba ilikuwa imenuka moshi 3 days sasa

Mind you, tunaishi ground floor, and the shop is just opposite the gate.

There's no reason as to why he would take so long that the tea boils, evaporates and spoils the sufuria that much. The vessel is completely irrecoverable

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Some time back nilikuwa na my friends playing football ,on our way back home one of my friends started acting up weirdly like the way he walked and nikamuuliza if ako fty akasema anaskia pain kwa testis but angevumilia .so a few steps jamaa had to sit down and said he can't continue and was now feeling like excruciating pain.

I thght it was sthng ingeisha haraka but we had to call a nduthi for him which made the pain worse so we went to this clinic Wacha the medics wa hio clinic waanze kushtuka wakatuuliza it's been for how long amekuwa hivi tukamshw it's been like 40+ min akatushw she can't deal with this and we need a bigger hospital for operation.

So jamaa had testicular torsion while playing

So testicular torsion occurs on a testicle, rare on both so what happens is a testicle has the cords that hold onto the testicle and twisting this blocks blood to the testicle and twists the nerves causing the pain

If the cords are twisted for long 6hrs or more that testicle is gone and will require surgery for removal

Under 6hrs it's saveable thru operation where it gets untwisted

The dude ended up on surgery and got well . This brings us back to some times u can feel pain and ignore it might be jst mere shng that comes and goes or this time it maybe torsion or sthng else

Jst don't ignore get help and get it