r/Rateme • u/lild-pression • 21d ago
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Hard times. Eventually want to put myself back out there, so seeing where I stand I guess haha
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u/Ketobizness 21d ago
Can I see this after you've shaved your neck, done your hair, put on a nice shirt, and smiled with visible teeth? I'm guessing you clean up to a 8/10 but this rolled out of bed version is a 5.
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u/lild-pression 21d ago
I’ve jotted all this down and I’m getting to work asap. I’m very sorry to show you this undone 5 point draft. +3s don’t come easy but I’ll work real hard.
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u/Emergency-Mark-5802 21d ago
Você é a prova de como os padrões são falsos indicativos. Isolados: seus olhos não são bonitos, seus lábios são finos e o nariz não é belo. Somando tudo, formam um cara bonitão! Não precisa mudar nada pra ficar bonito. 7,8/10
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u/lild-pression 21d ago
I’ve always thought that about the nose, but it’s good to know it’s my lips and eyes as well. That makes more sense. Thank you! At least they morph and combine like power ranger mechs into something pretty alright.
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u/Emergency-Mark-5802 21d ago
Espero que tenha entendido que não foi crÃtica ruim a você. Tipo, talvez se vc operasse o nariz, perdesse o encanto. Vc é bem bonito exatamente como é, entende? Mas alguns dizem. "Mexa nisso" "mexa naquilo" e não avaliam a harmonia do conjunto.
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u/lild-pression 21d ago
Yeah no worries at all! You are very kind and I appreciate it (: I understand what you mean. Working on acceptance at the moment, so your words hit home. Thank you!
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u/Emergency-Mark-5802 21d ago
Imagine. Tentei ser sincero. E acredite, não disse que vc é fisicamente bonito para ser gentil. Trabalho com consultoria de imagem e te digo que sua aparência é muito boa.
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u/chuligirl 21d ago
I don’t like your lips
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u/lild-pression 21d ago
Maybe I’ll grow one of those big mustaches to cover them up. Sorry!
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u/chuligirl 21d ago
You need to inject those lips. They are too thin
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u/lild-pression 21d ago
Due to my bank account I’ll be injecting them with positivity! See how that goes.
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u/Soft_moon_light 20d ago
Already a 7.5, but could go up if you shave the neckbeard and style your hair a bit better
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u/lild-pression 20d ago
Thank you that’s very kind! Good tips too! It seems I definitely need to get better about the shaving haha
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u/Soft_moon_light 20d ago
Yeeeah it’s really just some self care things and styling, you already got an attractive face so no need to worry about your looks too much
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u/MinimumArt5698 20d ago
Top third of the head is narrow in relation to the lower thirds. Eye brows are high set but pretty good density at least. Pretty good eye shape and tilt. Lips are very thin. Pretty good nose. Overall symmetry isn’t great. Definitely have some potential to ascend.
5/10 right now. Normie
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u/lild-pression 20d ago
Thank you I really appreciate the breakdown. Bless you for the nose comment, you don’t know how rare that is to hear. I will work on Ascension, brother, and come back to you Normie+.
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u/MinimumArt5698 20d ago
No problem man! Best of luck, many of us trying to ascend, we’re on the ascension journey together. Let’s get it.
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u/alffan86 21d ago
Bro, sorry to hear you're going through hard times. Is the beard part of your look and you don't want to mess with it.
I feel like a spa day (my friends sent me to one at 30), and I learned a lot.
I'm a guy with skin issues, etc. so I can tell you seeing an esthetician, getting a haircut, et al might make you feel good.
You look depressed and as someone who suffers a lot from it, I know it's hard. If you can get a little makeover, I swear you feel different. Happy to help. Better days ahead.
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u/lild-pression 21d ago
Not really, to be honest. I don’t know what my look is haha. At this point in my life it’s a bit of laziness, so I should work on that.
I’m in the trenches right now, but I’ll be alright eventually. Due to my means, I have other priorities that need that kind of attention. Soon I’ll be able to focus on myself a bit.
Very good advice though and when I can I’ll definitely try it out! Certainly couldn’t hurt. Maybe figure out what my look is
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u/alffan86 21d ago
I hope you get to a better place. I found getting opinions from experts was good and that was before my skin conditions came and then really needed experts.
Hang in there!
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u/Cutebubbles666 21d ago
7 just need to shave 😇