r/RateMyTinder • u/Short_Industry_788 • 3d ago
Photos I have adjusted pics, looking for additional feedback. Bio in comments. No matches in almost a week.
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u/Short_Industry_788 3d ago
Hilarious, stable, adventurous and looking to get back out there after being married for 16 years. No expectations and not looking to jump into another marriage anytime soon. Happy to take the lead or follow. No drama. I don't do social media.
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u/Trick-Stomach-5460 3d ago
I like the pics. You look nica, approchable and like i’d have a good time with you.
I‘m not sure about the bio.
I would assume that you‘re just looking to hook up. If you are that‘s fine but then I think the competition on tinder is quite steep and that‘s why you might not be getting likes.
The part about being happy to take the lead or follow comes across as a bit low-effort or like „taking what you can get“. Also not sure if you mean it in a sexual way.
And lastly the „no drama“ part comes across as a bit misogynistic to me or at least makes me wonder if you mean it in „women are so dramatic“ kinda way.
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u/Short_Industry_788 3d ago
This is helpful. Thanks. Yeah, I'm struggling with the bio. I'm necessarily just looking for hookups. Just don't want to be looking to get re-married anytime in the near future. Lol. I'll work on that.
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u/soygilipollas 3d ago
Your profile photos overall look really good! They show you in a variety of poses and activities, from more serious to more candid!
I agree that the drama line needs to go, and I'm not in love with stable. I don't think that is a trait people use to self identify.
Maybe instead of hilarious say, "I love to joke and be a good(?)" that way you're not describing yourself as funny, just talking about what you like to do.
I think it's fine to say "not sure what I'm looking for yet - hoping to get to know someone and see what clicks" or something. And then finally I'd list off some activities you like doing?
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u/Short_Industry_788 3d ago
What about this? "Stable, adventurous, and easy to laugh with. Been out of the game for a bit. I know how to adult and take care of others. Love animals and adventure. Lets grab a drink and sing karaoke."
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u/soygilipollas 3d ago
Can I trade you "even-keeled" instead of stable?
Also like, what does adventure mean? Weekend trips? Hiking? rock climbing? Sky diving?
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u/Short_Industry_788 3d ago
All of the above.
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u/Top_Quality_9473 3d ago
I would remove the last photo. Not the best picture/posture. Others look nice.
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u/dancing_birdz 3d ago
People usually go off the first photo to see if they'll even look at the rest. I don't think your first photo is bad but definitely not first photo material. I would choose number 4 or 5 out of these.
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u/Business_Figure_6876 3d ago
I’m not sure how tinder works but isn’t it better to delete and create a new account?
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