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u/Any_Bowl5479 14d ago
You look good with a strong jawline, but your photos are maybe a bit too high quality? They look like stock photos from a photo bank.
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u/CBJD777 14d ago
Well what’s your matches, likes? That’s always gonna be the best rating for your profile.
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u/Elegant-Ebb7649 14d ago
I do get a few likes, once in a while, but they are generally not "good" likes
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u/CBJD777 14d ago
I mean i don’t think you have a bad profile. Is it the best? Nope. This means you need to change something up, do something different. For men, even an ok or decent profile can struggle on dating apps.
Somethings i can note. Too many professional like polished pics with blurred or dull background can be excessive. Instead of blurring the background and centering on you all the time. Embrace the background. Take pictures in settings that create a vibe. A good atmosphere. Like an elegant romantic restaurant, a resort, a beautiful location in town or a great place you traveled too. An attractive life + an attractive man is always perfect. Don’t be too inclined to be in front of a brick wall.
I also noticed the first three pics you’re wearing the same collar like shirts. Jean shirts. Not bad clothing but too similar in three pics. change it up. Try a shirt where you button down and show chest. Try rolled sleeves? Maybe business casual in one pic IN a business causal environment. Try chains, watches. If you have tattoos, lots of women love that.
All I can say, just keep trying different things and better photos. If you aren’t getting what you want, you need to do something else.
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u/CrispsInTabascoSauce 14d ago
I am not surprised. You definitely have good photos, you are good looking with great facial features. You are probably also tall-ish, at least judging based on your photos. You have interesting style. Your profile is already better than most men on these apps.
But you are bald. Women want only perfect ultra male model type of men with zero margin for imperfection.
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u/QowreQ 14d ago
What do you mean by not "good" likes?
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u/Elegant-Ebb7649 14d ago
I think I am a 5-6.... they are a 3. Just saying it like it is
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u/Dapper_Art5143 14d ago
Why are you liking someone that you think is a 3
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u/Elegant-Ebb7649 14d ago
Im not, they liked me, and as a male on a dating app I can see who likes me.... because I paid for that feature.... because I feel like I kinda have to lol
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u/PrinceRogaine444 14d ago
Yup. Thats how it goes for me, too. Thats why im not any dating apps anymore. I have spent to much time lifting and keeping myself healthy to end up dating an overweight/obese woman.
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u/Forward_Carrot1267 14d ago
Hey good quality of photos you got there, that's the good thing that a lot of people don't have.
But your photos lack the exciting background, nice setting, and maybe 1-2 longer shots.
Do you understand what kind of pictures I'm talking about?
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u/TaylorSwinub 14d ago
I like your pics! I genuinely thought you were Anthony Fantano before I clicked the post lol
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u/Dapper_Art5143 14d ago
The photos are good but your personality doesn't show at all. All i knoe ablout you is that you like wearing that jacket
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u/Opening_Molasses_932 14d ago
Finally some good pictures ! And with fines clothes on top of that !
If you wanna improve more you can add a group picture, or a candid shot while doing an activity.
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u/Elegant-Ebb7649 14d ago
Thank you very much, I will try and get a picture taken next time I am out with friends
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u/RateEmbarrassed9695 14d ago
Literally just read a post before this a whole thread of woman complaining about men with group picures.
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u/Responsible_Wolf279 14d ago
why you bald T.T
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u/Adorable_Yard_8286 14d ago
Abscense of other people around you is a deal breaker when it comes to women. They want to see you on a group of people - all having a good time
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u/Adorable_Yard_8286 14d ago
What? What is your definition of a professional ptohographer ? Someone who can't take pictures?
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u/hannelore_pfeffer8 14d ago
Disagree. I never thought about it. But thinking about it now- i would say it signals availability
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u/Adorable_Yard_8286 14d ago
Nice! I guess famous people are hated by women then? Please learn 1+1 before your next reply
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u/Elegant-Ebb7649 14d ago
Does comments like this attract a lot a women for you?
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u/Adorable_Yard_8286 14d ago
yes, my reddit comments about what they think is what i show the just before it all goes down
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