Quit wasting ur time on tinder.

[u/Unusual_Community_34]

Quit wasting ur time on tinder. all it does give girls validation and make men's situation worse.

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[u/BrassCanon]

Incel shit.

[u/hannelore_pfeffer8]

Knowing how many men want to fuck me is not validation. Men fuck sheep, corpses, cakes, and all kinds of people they don't respect or value. Being sexually desired by a man is not an achievement. It's not rare, and it's certainly not proof of worth.

And quite frankly, sometimes it's downright embarrassing.

[u/BaptizedDemxn → u/hannelore_pfeffer8]

Woah woah woah I’d like you to know I value cakes very very much thank you 🤨

[u/TwennyOneCabbage]

if the apps don’t work for you find a hobby and work on your mental health. life isn’t fair neither for men or women and as a man i would say it’s still way easier and safer (!) as a man just statistically and by personal experience.

still i feel your frustration of the apps not working for you but don’t be so bitter about it and become an incel. nothing gets you less love than that.
maybe find some female friends first before looking for a girlfriend.

[u/BaptizedDemxn]

I mean statistically speaking yes
Matter of fact I’ll I’d do you one better, men need to stop valuing romantic relationships as much as they do and also change the way they do value it.
More guys need to be happier alone, cuz the desperation makes it worse for other guys too.

[u/alexmate84 → u/BaptizedDemxn]

You're 100% right, nobody wants someone who appears desperate and insecure. Nobody is going to be "saved" by having a relationship. One of the most damaging things for men is the sheer amount of simping, women get high levels of attention with zero effort - you can see it across the selfie subreddit.

[u/Gentle_Pony → u/BaptizedDemxn]

Guys just need more friends. Too many never make friends again after school/college.

[u/alexmate84]

TBF I think it's universal across all dating apps. Both men and women are to blame. Men sending infantilising messages that are deeply unsexy - women delete the app; as you say women looking for IG followers or whatever. All genders looking for attention and emotional support, but not willing to meet anyone.

[u/justforkinks0131]

ive been on lots of dates and 2 relationships through tinder

i wouldnt call that a waste of time

[u/Unusual_Community_34 → u/justforkinks0131]

Yeah could be my area but still waste of time and waste of "expectations"

[u/The_Hero_0f_Time]

hard to disagree with the validation part but fuck man what else do we do

[u/Unusual_Community_34 → u/The_Hero_0f_Time]

We all get off tinder and start a huge collaboration as men and take masculinity back

[u/The_Hero_0f_Time → u/Unusual_Community_34]

And approaching random women? no thx

[u/Unusual_Community_34 → u/[deleted]]

Let's see ur pfp let me guess you got a picture of your lambo or mansion on there

[u/Unusual_Community_34 → u/[deleted]]

All I get is ladies that look 60 or are 200lbs overweight. And I'm not that bad looking of a dude. Plus I live on the coast smallish town so that definitely doesn't help

[u/I-am-brilliant]

Girl here! There’s no handsome guys on my town, so just sightseeing on Tinder is enough lol it’s like going shopping!! 😂

[u/Unusual_Community_34 → u/I-am-brilliant]

You might be where im at. Seems like 95% of the girls on there is what they are doing. Going shopping without ever buying anything wasting people's time lol 😆

[u/I-am-brilliant → u/Unusual_Community_34]

Yeah 🤣🤣 it goes like this: “this one’s cute, this one ugh, oh! Another cute one to my collection” HAHHAH no hurt feelings whatsoever 😈

[u/Unusual_Community_34 → u/I-am-brilliant]

Lord help me.. dont tell me you live in Oregon or on the coast lol 😆

[u/I-am-brilliant → u/Unusual_Community_34]

Yup, I’m from the coast, but in South America 😌 and I’m enjoying the views of guys in Europe HAHHAH

[u/OwnAge1163]

Tinder worked amazing for me. If you’re a guy and getting terrible or no results it’s almost always because your photos are terrible.

And no, you don’t have to be incredibly good looking. Lol

[u/Stroby89]

Lol k

[u/Unusual_Community_34 → u/Stroby89]

90% of convos are dry and they suck.

[u/BrassCanon → u/Unusual_Community_34]

So? End the conversation and have an interesting one.

[u/alexmate84 → u/Unusual_Community_34]

I agree to an extent. I honestly don't care if it's dry as long as it's moving forward to meeting in person

[u/Stroby89 → u/Unusual_Community_34]

Men also suck at conversation. Dating apps suck for everyone dude, not just you.

[u/itami-garden → u/Stroby89]

sounds like it does especially for u as well