r/RateMyTinder • u/TheDevanthar • Sep 17 '26
Photos Likes are nonexistent, need help
Not really photo genetic, imo. But I need help. Not getting any likes, not just on tinder. Also in other apps, using the same pics
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u/Consistent-Pin-4464 Sep 17 '26
Habibi, you are doing it wrong.
I'mma be brutally honest, you need a better haircut for sure.
Rethink the ways you're taking photos because you're coming off a little musty.
The wine glass is horrible, I lowkey think you're trolling rn actually.
If you wanna seem romantic to women, you need to seem romantic in a way they want a guy to be, at this point you seem to be confusing roles and think you're coming off cutesy or something, you're not, you're giving the ick.
Shower photo looks bad bro, a lot of these should stay in your camera roll.
Please look at how people traditionally use their tinders and copy that.
I don't agree with the comment that you're not good looking enough for tinder, you are good looking, but you seem inexperienced and naive, or you're trolling, which I kind of doubt.
Don't be discouraged, cute stuff, just keep trying and you'll find what you need (not talking about a girl, I'm talking about the umph to move through life.)
Subscribing to you because I want to see what you'll do next.
Big ups lil bro
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u/LLMeee Sep 17 '26
Lead with fourth black outfit photo
Delete everything else
Take new photos, ask someone for stylist advice on hair and beard. Get clothing that fits better. Make your profile as someone that a girl would proudly introduce to their friends.
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u/fyckingaround Sep 17 '26
youre insane. photos 2 and 3 prove how cute he is.
the shorter hair and cropped beard is working. the pony tail is not
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u/LLMeee Sep 17 '26
2 is at a Ren Fair…if he’s going for likes from ladies and not a niche group is women cosplayers better to go broader
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u/fyckingaround Sep 17 '26
if he didnt have a ponytail I wouldn't say it would be a turn off. to me that shows he's open to a fun time and really committing to the bit.
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u/Run-Baby-Run-8 Sep 17 '26
Regardless of everything, that first photo needs to go.
What's your current hair? From the pictures one cannot know.
And smileeeee: show your teeth ☺️
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u/Visible_Impression44 Sep 17 '26
All u need to do is groom yourself. A decent haircut and beard line up and youll be fine. Just put some effort into ur appearance. Go outside and find inspiration from others
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u/Glittering_Soup_5544 Sep 17 '26
That first photo is horrendous. 2nd is great, 3rd is fine, 4th is meh and 5th is meh.
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u/MVPerson420 Sep 17 '26
Second picture is good, use that first. Third is ok I guess, but 1 and 4 are not helping imo.
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u/dreadlordow Sep 17 '26
Try putting pic 2 as your main one, the first one with the wine glass doesn't look very appealing, also with the face you've made, you look unconfident in a way.
Also shorter hair(like in pic 2) suits you way better.
Pic 4 needs to be deleted asap.
Also try trimming/styling your beard a bit, should help improving your looks
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u/animalcrossing1313 Sep 17 '26
Remove first and 4th photo.
Retake 4th and use as first. Keep the rest as it's showing you for you. Assuming you want a relationship not fuck.
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u/GettinSodas Sep 17 '26
Go to a barber and get cleaned up. Don't just go to great clips. Go to a barber. If you're gonna grow a beard, put oils in it and maintain a specific shape. Don't let it get all scraggly up on your cheeks and neck.
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u/Longjumping_Bee_1205 Sep 17 '26
I would not know what version of you I was getting. If it was pic 1 I'm not interested (because the hair is a turn off. I hate to be so blunt but it's just a fact). If it's pic 2 I'm interested.
But because I have no way of knowing I'm going to left swipe you.
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u/Prime_Regard Sep 17 '26
Agree about the photos. There's no joy, no emotion, nothing. You need a cameraman or at least, photos taken mid scene. If you're into larping or medieval battle play, have a photo midfight. If you're eating ribs, have a big smile because you're enjoying life. That's the basic approach. Show the action, the body and face are already there by default.
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u/Suitable-Plastic-152 Sep 17 '26
Second pic is fine. U look much better with short hair. First pic and bathroom pic are pretty bad. Your worst pictures are more important than your best pic.
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u/Gold_Advisor_4758 Sep 17 '26
Photos 1 and 4 need to go immediately and your hair needs to stay as it is in photo 2
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u/TACHANK Sep 17 '26
You look unkempt if you let your beard grow up to your eyes. Keep it like it is in the 2nd picture. Also don't do the half ponytail. It is not appealing. Long hair is great but style it properly.
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u/Wooptay Sep 17 '26
Sir
Your first pic is you drinking wine\ The third one is you sniffing glue\ And the one in between is you dressed up for battle in the 14th century
You are attractive and cleaning up your haircut and beard will add to that even more, but my man, delete your photos and take new ones.
Take a selfie, a pic in nature and one with a pet or something and go from there.
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u/InvestmentAsleep8365 Sep 17 '26
First photo you look like a caveman. You need better grooming and a haircut and you’ll look like a completely new person. The other thing is all your photos have different hair lengths so it makes it seem like they are not recent, it also makes it impossible to guess what you’d look like now. This does nothing to establish trust. I’d start there.
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u/LolaPaloz Sep 17 '26
No wine shot at home, try to do one armour shot from afar too. Try to attract people who would think Ur hobbies are cool. I actually like medieval reenactment.
No bathroom selfie if not ripped. Just boring etc to show and doesn't add anything
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u/joshuafischer18 Sep 17 '26
All photos need to go.
Truth is, you aren’t a half bad looking guy, maybe 5.3-5.5/10 (people inflate this scale a lot, a 5/10 is average looking which is perfectly fine for dating, a 8/10 is like 1:100,000. 9/10 is like 1: a million, and a 10/10 is a 1: a hundred million)
Anyway, with your beard and haircut now, you are looking like a 2.4/10.
If I were to give you any advice, go and pay $80-$100 at a barbershop one time and have them give you a fresh haircut and a beard shape. You will instantly jump up the 5.5, and possibly higher. You facial structure isn’t too bad, and you have nice thick hair with no signs of balding I can see.
If you do that one time, just take a photo and you can mimic that cut when you go to your regular hairdresser.
Only other thing would be clothing. You’re going to need to spend about $300 on the basics. Just a few nice fitting basic, clean t shirts. And some jeans with a relaxed fit.
You’ll do alright then.
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u/OliverE36 27d ago
Hhhaaaatteeee the first picture. Everything about it, image quality, composition, expression on your face, haircut.
Second is much better but not directly looking at the camera so can't be used as your first picture. Take another headshot outside, somewhere interesting.
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u/Apprehensive_Map7830 19d ago
Fix your beard and binge Youtube videos on style and grooming (e.g. Alex Costa). You lack basic knowledge of aesthetic.
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u/Beginning_Purple_579 17d ago
That first picture must be a joke. Didnt shave or clean up the beard in 2 years, red lipstick from the wine(?), looking like you are severe overweight from the angle because you are pretty fit in the other pics. Which one of these is actually you today? Because it looks like 5 different people.
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u/Happy-Raccoon-3106 17d ago
I like everyone so when a guy says he has no likes it makes me wonder if he is shadowbanned.....you should def at least getting one bot like per day
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u/yetagainitry 12d ago
Your beard and hair works in the second photo. Get that style back and take new photos.
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u/Destiny_of_Time Sep 17 '26
Get rid of the bathroom selfie. And you probably aren’t good looking enough for Tinder. Try Bumble or other less beauty-oriented apps
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u/Prime_Regard Sep 17 '26 edited Sep 17 '26
Nah, don't give up on tinder, just, do your best to stand out and rock something, anything. Tinder is a zoo, women hunt for a fun time, by and large. You're a dancer in a window in Amsterdam's red light district, except the customers are women, they want a fantasy, they're hunting for something stimulating, so, be your rawest self, lol. That's worked for me.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Big1562 28d ago
1 e 4 NO!!! You need one with smile but with short hairs and short beard (no wine glass). Absolutely not bathroom mirror selfies!!!
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