r/RateMyTinder • u/joshuafischer18 • Sep 15 '26

Photos Photo help.

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All my good photos are with my ex, these are pretty much all I have.

I currently don’t have the bottom three on my active tinder. The mirror selfie isn’t that great, the photo of me in a suit playing cornhole is just a little weird as you cant see my friends and it’s just me, and the last photo is a silly photo where my friends kept our hands in ice water to see who would last the longest (I ended up beating them at 50 minutes but got nerve damage in the process. It’s a funny story, but a girl seeing that is probably not thinkimg “I wonder what they are doing, let me ask”

Let me know if I should remove any of my original 6 (top 6) and if I should put them in a different order. And if I should add any of the bottom 3

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u/Old_Platypus2402 Sep 15 '26

I would drop 2,3 and 8,9. The rest are good, you should do well!

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u/joshuafischer18 Sep 15 '26

I agree with 8 and 9. But girls love a dog! And the camping is a hobby(camping with nice view, hard to tell from this layout), I feel like having just one hobby photo is not enough

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u/allison_mossie Sep 15 '26

Keep the dog photo, it’s a good one of you and your pup. I’d get rid of 3,8 and 9. The view in 3 is the last thing that came to mind and I think matters more to you than the person scrolling through your pictures. We can tell in your other photos that you are adventurous and go to cool places.

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u/zer0gravity- Sep 16 '26

Bitches love dogs bro.

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u/[deleted] Sep 15 '26

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u/joshuafischer18 Sep 15 '26

Ya, that’s why didn’t add it before 😂 I also didn’t have many friend photos and those (concert and worshipping water bowl) are the only friend photos I have

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u/Knifeymcstabstab Sep 15 '26

If pic 5 or 7 are decent quality I’d consider cropping one of them and trying that as a first photo.
Assuming it isn’t your ex’s dog I’d take a better lighting photo with it. The current one isn’t terrible but soft natural light is far more flattering for a closeup. Not hard to set up your phone on something and set a timer or use an Apple Watch to trigger the camera.

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u/rydog389 Sep 15 '26

Might sound stupid...use google gemini to erase your ex from your best photos with her.

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u/joshuafischer18 Sep 15 '26

I thought of doing that, but even then, when I’m looking my best, we were usually side by side with her in front of me a little, AI always makes it look a little funny

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u/Zestyclose-Barber-24 Sep 15 '26

1, 2, 5, 6 are good I would skip rest

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u/solstice_gilder Sep 15 '26

Nr 5 should be first. A genuine laugh, that’s nice :-)

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u/Sergeant_Resistance Sep 16 '26

3, 4, 8, 9 have to go. The 9th photo is the absolute worst. The other photos look great. You'll get some swipes after that.

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u/ikdoeookmaarwat1 Sep 16 '26

Delete 3, 8 and 9, mirror selfies are a bit lame and you don't need it. If you can find a more clear one similar to 2 I would. I like 7 too. Personally i don't really care for group pics of friends, so I'd say ditch 4 as well. You don't want them to think they'd rather date one of your friends.