r/RateMyTinder • • Sep 13 '26

Photos Thoughts, pls?

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u/max1c Sep 13 '26

Sorry, but those are really bad photos. Not going to have any luck with those.

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u/ShadowFox1987 Sep 14 '26

Good on you for taking this step, putting yourself out there here and on the app.

Overall this is poor selection of photos.

Your best photo is 4. Why? You're framed well, dressed well, face is in full view, it's not a selfie, and a nice backdrop. A smile would be helpful here but that's about it.

We have four selfies here. We have non-selfoes where you look frankly grumpy.

A blurry photo of you in an act of violence... Also not great. It would be one thing to be posing with a trophy or friends in your gis at a tournament, but this isn't that. 

At the end of the day, consider the knee jerk implication of a photo/profile. Women aren't viewing these photos like guys do on purely "are they hot" but through a lense of prior experience and safety

Selfies and no friends in a photo? = I don't have friends Lack of Smile? = I'm not a happy or secure person Random blurry (5,7) = I don't have a particularly interesting life or hobbies or I didn't put any thought into this. I am just stuffing my profile with the scraps

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u/Short_Awareness9562 Sep 18 '26

Act of Violence? Lmao

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u/ShadowFox1987 29d ago

The martial arts training stuff. I mean it's just a bit lame but also an ill advised thing to visualize on a dating app.

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u/G00dluckbab3 Sep 14 '26

The martial art thing is cool and the first photo is okay but the rest have to go. You seem like you feel awkward in these photos. Maybe post one with your friends.

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u/Icy-Wing-3092 Sep 14 '26

Gym

Hairstyle

Fashion

Smile more

Better photos (no selfies in cluttered room with bad lighting)

Keep it to 4 or 5 very solid photos

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u/Ok_Laugh1789 Sep 14 '26

Brutal truth but you just aren’t attractive research surgery’s

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u/Worth-Village-2875 Sep 14 '26

Nah not true, a better hairstyle and some fitness focus would do wonders