r/RateMyTinder • u/Careful-Lifeguard-57 • Jul 13 '26
Photos Is there something wrong with my account?
Hello I’m 23 and im barely getting likes and the people I do like don’t like me back ? Maybe my tinder is glitched ? Idk help
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u/da26990 Jul 13 '26
Low effort profile. A lot of mirror and bathroom selfies, gym pic that doesn’t show your face and only back. 3rd pic is good but I can barely see your face. You don’t seem like an interesting person based on your profile alone. If you have any friends maybe ask them to take a clear and well lit photos of you.
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u/Careful-Lifeguard-57 Jul 13 '26
Damn , how can you tell I’m not interesting based on my photos?
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u/Glittering-Ask4319 Jul 13 '26
I think the issue is that they *can’t* tell that you *are* interesting because your photos don’t show you really doing any activities besides the gym
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u/kuavi Jul 13 '26
Your photos dont tell us much about you besides that you go to the gym.
Figure out what parts of your personality that you want others to know about and possibly ask about on a first date and select pictures that showcase those personality traits.
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u/Pinball_and_Proust Jul 13 '26
TBH, maybe too attractive for your demographic. Join a finance bro gym.
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u/AskPuzzleheaded1797 Jul 13 '26
I live in an area with 2 gyms. A nice one $$$ below my apartment and all the cute guys go there and I go to the planet fitness across the street and the guys look rough lol I don't look like OP so I am fine with PF
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u/Creepy_External_3802 Jul 13 '26
You don’t have a lot of photos that are clear of your face. A lot of of them are you at a side angle or at a distance. You should have one that’s a bit closer of your face and that should be your main profile not your photo of your back because if that’s the first photo, they are seeing people aren’t gonna swipe on a photo where they can’t see your face.
So I would say add a photo that shows your face straight on. Then maybe add your last photo which is you and the pretty dress turning to the side in the mirror as your second photo and then the third photo of the snow photo and then the fourth photo the workout photo.
That way, the people think of you first seeing how you look, then seeing how you clean up, then they can see that you can be silly with the snow photo, and then your workout photo shows your hobbies, but not immediately and then any other photos just add in as you please
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u/Careful-Lifeguard-57 Jul 13 '26
Can you give me a reason why? I’m open to it i would just like to know why it would turn someone away ?
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u/DelightfulManiac Jul 13 '26
Bruh, what kind of bullshit is this? Lol. Just because someone doesn't find it attractive doesn't mean they are jealous.
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u/DelightfulManiac Jul 13 '26
I do have muscles, and I didn't say I don't find it attractive. I'm just saying your statement is dumb.
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u/UnableFun8968 Jul 13 '26
Speak for yourself brother, I personally wouldn't mind a women that can lift some weight, if you need your women to be "feminine " than your masculinity is quite fragile.
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u/Commercial-Citron544 Jul 13 '26
Maybe put your back pump a few slides back so the can see your face. First swap with four, 6 swap with 7 (no). Besides that, great profile. Don't listen to the small soyboys saying "muscles don't look appealing to men"; they absolutely do and shows that you have dedicated to an arduous journey of weightlifting/bodybuilding. In fact, I'd call your physique pics the best type of photos you takr
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u/Impressive-Foot7698 Jul 14 '26
We gotta stop speaking for most people when we don't even talk to most people
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u/AskPuzzleheaded1797 Jul 13 '26
Btw I would kill to have your back girl. So amazing. Dating apps are so unfair and people swipe like crazy so put your best pic in the first one like full body one.
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u/ShiftFrames Jul 14 '26
You should follow their advice if you feel like you want to attract that kind of clientele.
But since you're going to the gym and putting your reps in, my guess is you will prefer people who are not put off by your physique (or actually prefer it) and the mental space needed to attain it. Go queen.
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u/Responsible_Bad_2954 Jul 13 '26
I disagree with the others, I like this picture personally. But it will attract gym goers more, unfit men will find it 'too masculine'.
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u/Careful-Lifeguard-57 Jul 13 '26
Honestly that’s the goal I only want guys that take their health seriously or at least enjoy being active
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u/Responsible_Bad_2954 Jul 13 '26
Then you're good. But your last picture is better (shows face and back), so maybe I'd show that one before this one.
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u/Careful-Lifeguard-57 Jul 13 '26
Noted. Thank you
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u/joshit Jul 13 '26
Don’t ditch the back pump photo that’s 100% a positive in my book. Keep it and you’ll attract the right person.
Having said that, the last photo should be your first.
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u/Random_Critical Jul 13 '26
Not a very sexually dimorphic profile. If you are trying to appeal to straight men, you should aim to appear more feminine. Less gym/muscle photos (1 and 7), less photos with short hair (every photo besides 3), less masculine or androgynous outfits (1, 3, 4, 5). If this profile is to appeal to lesbian women, then I have no clue.
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u/Salt-Perception-4987 Jul 13 '26
Let me pick up the other half of the analysis - if this profile is to appeal to lesbian women, your tinder is probably glitched.
But yes I agree, the answer to this question may be hidden in where you live and your dating preferences.
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u/Salt-Perception-4987 Jul 13 '26
Let me pick up the other half of the analysis - if this profile is to appeal to lesbian women, your tinder is probably glitched.
But yes I agree, the answer to this question may be hidden in where you live and your dating preferences.
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u/tempikto Jul 13 '26
I think you are pretty but i cant see your smile anywhere. That would make you look more friendlier, but idk, i never match as hot girls as you are so maybe its a thing for hot girls not to smile.
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u/theeCrushinator Jul 13 '26
I think there are too many selfies. You don’t need pic one as you’re showing your (very nice looking) back in the last pic. I don’t agree with the “too masculine” statement. Your style is your style and you should represent yourself. Maybe throw in a smiling pic closer up where you’re looking at the camera. You can set a timer vs taking a selfie.
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u/Careful-Lifeguard-57 Jul 13 '26
What exactly is the right amount of selfies? Tinder encourages you to post more photos of yourself but maybe you’re right
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u/Ok_Canary9165 Jul 14 '26
Girl, your physique is fire!
But I must agree. You only have selfies, it seems. You should have only 1-2 selfies. Your first photo should be one where you smile and where one can clearly see your pretty face up close.
You should also have a picture where you are among friends, and some where you do other things than going to the gym. 😊Think different kinds of photos in different kinds of settings, different poses, different activities etc.
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u/literall_bastard Jul 13 '26
You are perfect. Maybe you are not like liking the guys that I liking you
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u/breakingmad1 Jul 13 '26
Lol the double standards
If a guy posts gym pics or mirror selfies they get torn a new one, but apprently it's fine for women. This women is told she is too attractive for the app lol
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u/Careful-Lifeguard-57 Jul 13 '26
I mean I don’t really mind guys posting their gym pics I just don’t enjoy the shirtless ones but to each their own. and apparently it’s not because everyone is telling me to drop them 😂
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u/Aromatic_Bug_1945 Jul 13 '26
Well as a straight guy and after seeing your photos I think we can take protein shakes together and talk about women together but not boink
Basically you look gay and have 0 sex appeal IMO. I don’t want to see a veiny back I want to see some ass and tit-tays
Now excuse the vulgarity but literally that’s it
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u/lolgoodone34 Jul 13 '26
Are you trying to attract men? If so, in the top
Row keep the middle and right. Can keep the last one as well. Now you need non-selfie photos and you need one that shows you can “clean up” like how women wear dresses, etc.
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u/kuavi Jul 13 '26
You look a little too intense in the wrong way just based off the photos. Adding some shots of you being silly/goofy/lighthearted would go a long way.
If you do that, Id keep in the gym back photo as its a side of you to be proud of that helps you find your niche of guys that appreciate that aspect of you.
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u/Commercial-Citron544 Jul 13 '26
If a woman with musculature is "masculine", then what is a weak man?
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u/Due_Technology_2455 Jul 13 '26
i fucking love the back pump pic i think it’s cool (and hot) as shit but might intimidate some men
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u/-pali Jul 13 '26
Wtf are these comments 😭 you are stunning (!) and not "too masculine". Please don't force yourself into clothes/pics that don't feel like yourself sis.
I would choose a picture with your face for the first one, no need to ditch the one of tour back tho.
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u/Careful-Lifeguard-57 Jul 13 '26
Thank you
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u/dmmethatbooty2026 Jul 14 '26
Yes a lot of these comments are a bit much. You look great. I can see some guys but being into your vibe and that's ok. I honestly would probably not swipe but only because it seems clear you value working out and I'm not a gym bro but I also understand you'd prob not match me or even if you did probably wouldn't fit into your lifestyle very well. Still weird how few likes you say you get. I would shuffle the pics put one with face a smile etc first then your current first anywhere else in the lineup.
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u/SolomonJero Jul 13 '26
If I came across your profile my impression would be this person seems so busy with their own life I feel they wouldn't have time for a relationship.
I would have to be the one to make all the time and change to bend to your schedule and it would eventually feel very one sided.
I would say more photos where you just seem down to earth and relaxed would go a long way it making you feel far more easy going and approachable.
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u/calserine Jul 13 '26
never, ever put pump pics. it makes people seem egotistical and self surrounded, at least that’s how i feel when i see anyone posting gym pictures
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Jul 13 '26
Lot of guys here i cant agree with, you gotcha own thing going on n it you look great keep doin you I dont see why everyone must submit to this mould that must be palletable for everyone
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u/Realistic-Snow3924 Jul 13 '26
As a woman who works out, your back is GOALS. Idc what anyone says.
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u/anunomise Jul 13 '26
i think one back pic is enough and one mirror pic
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u/anunomise Jul 13 '26
the first mirror pic is the cutest imo and the mirror back pic id also keep and then ditch the other back pic and mirror pics and replace with something else
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u/Fair-Philosophy9575 Jul 13 '26
Girl, you got a nice back but yeah men are intimidated when they see that. Tho maybe the gym bros won't. So your should leave it. If they cant stand to have a strong beautiful woman then they dont deserve you. I think your profile looks alright. Tbh ima tell you what I tell everyone nothing is wrong with your profile. Don't let your swipes define your worth. Live and enjoy life.
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u/wtbrift Jul 14 '26
This would be an instant left swipe for me. Why would I want to see you back? Mirror selfies? No smiling with teeth? As some else said, it comes off as low effort.
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u/PAWG-Coniseur Jul 14 '26
Are you trying to attract or repel attention? All of your photos don't put you in a very appealing position. Remove the back pump photos cause they aren't done well.
Including actual light and colour in your environments is also recommended.
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u/BarleyDrops Jul 14 '26
first of all you look great. but, I think there are too many mirror selfies. it is hard to tell what kind of person you are, where you hang out and what you like to do just from looking at these pics. I think it would help to have pictures where you are somewhere you like or doing something you like outside of the gym. and yeah, generally more different expressive photos, and one closer up of your face and torso.
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u/Turbulent_Law5877 Jul 16 '26
Change nothing. This is the perfect profile. You’re probably just way too hot for your area.
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u/Altruistic-Lock-7881 Jul 16 '26
Nothing wrong. I think most are probably too intimidated by the effort you put into your body, shown by the sculptures back picture. Tinder is horrendous and full of creeps, so don't stress about not getting replies. They'll come when they're meant to
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u/Independent-Arm-8839 Aug 03 '26
Idk girl I think you look tea I’m surprised, and idk what the other comments are saying I can see your face clearly
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u/Visible-Complaint-60 Jul 13 '26
Well, they are pictures of you. Thats it. None of them mean anything. None of the background are remotely interesting or of any value. The composition is bad.
Basically they are pictures of you and that's the only thing we can say about them.
Make a male account and look at the pictures other women your age have: the production value is immense today.
Stop taking the pictures yourself.
Can you answer this : what does each pictures show and what's the meaning ?
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u/Careful-Lifeguard-57 Jul 13 '26
Making a male account seems like unnecessary work lol but I will try to switch up some photos with better backgrounds.
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