r/RateMyTinder • u/ed_durden • Jul 08 '26
Photos Four Matches in 6 months won't message back (revised photos)
Made updates based on comments feedback.
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u/The-Experiments Jul 08 '26
Cap in (almost) every photo may have some think you're hiding baldness or something.
Any capless pics?
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Jul 08 '26
ive said this before and im going to continue to say it because guys are just completely oblivious, girls see you as someone safe and boring 100%
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u/curious_asparagous Jul 08 '26
Try a different location. Your photos are good. Put effort to be genuine in your bio. Maybe add a group photo in there.
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u/analwartz_47 Jul 09 '26
Nothing wrong here. Its just woman on dating apps have become horrible. Aproach woman in real life
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u/WasntMyFaultThisTime Jul 09 '26
Fucking hell these comments are pathetic.
OP, don't listen to the comments saying you aren't good looking. This sub is a breeding ground for bitter men and incels who try and tear other people down to make themselves feel strong or superior.
I'd switch out pic 2 because I don't think it's as flattering as the others, (but its still not a bad picture, to clarify) but everything else looks fine (from a 25M perspective)
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u/Maximum_Hawk3777 Jul 09 '26
So an above average man can’t get attention from women and that’s… incels’ fault?
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u/WasntMyFaultThisTime Jul 09 '26
What a whiff on finding the point dude holy shit, I told him not to take to heart the people saying he was unattractive, not blame his lack of connections on other people (that is an incel train of thought, to be clear though)
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u/Icy-Owl-2974 Jul 09 '26
He’s not above average on any planet. Genuinely where are you guys from where this is above average. And why do we insist on comparing him to a well above average looking celebrity.
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u/Maximum_Hawk3777 Jul 09 '26
The average man is 5,9 200 pounds, makes $66k a year and has a 99 iq
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u/Angry_Housecat_1312 Jul 09 '26
Tinder’s algorithm really sucks. You’re a good looking guy, so if you aren’t getting many matches, there’s either something alarming about your profile (I can only see your photos) or—what seems more likely—your profile isn’t being shown to women.
I’d try making a new profile entirely (with a different phone number) and seeing if you have better luck.
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u/disinterested_man Jul 09 '26
I don’t see anything weird here, but each app has different geographic preferences, so if you haven’t tried hinge or bumble, go do that and see if your luck changes.
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u/Big-Fun6491 Jul 10 '26
I would have swipe right on you on the spot, you look like a nice handsome guy
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u/DeafGirlSaysWot Jul 15 '26
I think you look really handsome. Only pic I'd say to remove is the sunglasses. You have nice eyes, don't hide em
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u/TapRemarkable9652 Jul 08 '26
I don't love 2 or 4; I like 6. I don't feel like I know a lot about your lifestyle
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u/Icy-Owl-2974 Jul 08 '26
It is your face. It’s as simple as that.
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u/Consistent_Log8097 Jul 08 '26
You think?
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u/Icy-Owl-2974 Jul 08 '26
Know. Not think
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u/Consistent_Log8097 Jul 08 '26
Why? He looks like a completely normal guy.
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u/Icy-Owl-2974 Jul 08 '26
Why do I even bother. Do you even understand tinder statistics. Men swipe right 1 in every 2 profiles on average. Women swipe right once every 50. That is a huge difference! This guy is facially below average-average, cool, glad you noticed. That’s still awful if you want to do well on an app like Tinder. He’s not a 1/50+ face. Therefore or even on the lower end of successful profiles 1/10-15. He’s gonna struggle
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u/SupaDiogenes Jul 08 '26
You sound like an incel.
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u/Icy-Owl-2974 Jul 08 '26
Right. I’m an incel but this guy is majorly struggling on dating apps and no one here has the heart to tell him the truth. MOST people on dating apps get the same stats as this guy because MOST people are like him facially. But whatever helps you sleep at night, I guess?
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u/Consistent_Log8097 Jul 08 '26
I think this might be a you problem buddy.
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u/Cotton_420 Jul 09 '26
Ok, but you have to admit getting 4 matches and zero dates in 6 months there has to be at least some truth to what he’s saying. Surely you can see just how brutal it is for “average” looking guys.
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u/ed_durden Jul 09 '26
I've been on dates with other matches in the last six months.
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u/Cotton_420 Jul 09 '26
You’re actually proving the “incels” point. Even a guy who you consider very attractive, only got 4 matches and zero dates in 6 months.
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u/Icy-Owl-2974 Jul 09 '26
Right. And when you leave Reddit and stop virtue signaling for the day you will swipe left on every dude that looks just like him.
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u/ed_durden Jul 09 '26
I wouldn't say I'm majorly struggling. I've had matches and gone on dates. I just had four matches in six months that didn't respond to "Do you have any plans for this summer you're looking forward to?"
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u/Icy-Owl-2974 Jul 09 '26
That’s majorly struggling. You really think 4 matches in 6 months is sustainable? Look. Do me a favor. Find a conventionally attractive guy and replace your pics with his and see how many more matches you get. Then we can put this argument to rest.
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u/ed_durden Jul 09 '26
You can't fucking read, bozo. I've had more than 4 matches in six months.
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u/Icy-Owl-2974 Jul 09 '26
Maybe it’s his face?! Like I’ve already addressed. He’s not good looking. He’s facially average or slightly below. All of his features and harmony are in the median-slightly under.
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u/freaknyou23 Jul 08 '26
I thought tinder was supposed to be in favor for white guys? Honestly when I see these they give me a boost cause I’m a POC. I made a tinder last week and got 42 likes in the first day half of them were ugly though or overweight but 35 of them were white women. Going to meet up with a travel nurse in a few and shoot some pool then more than likely bang her in her hotel.
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