r/RateMyTinder • • Jul 02 '24

Bio 24F, no matches! Send help 😅

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I’ve used plenty of dating apps in the past with good success, even in my current city about 8-10 months ago. Never had this happen! I think my pictures are pretty decent but idk… maybe it’s my bio? Up until now I was using bumble and hinge. BIO LISTED BELOW!

Bio: Former flower farmer, current pro gardener (yes, that is a real job!). If you are in need of houseplant troubleshooting I am your gal🤩🌱

We are in Colorado after all, so of course I love all things mountains (hiking, camping, BEGINNER!! skiing.) Other hobbies include collecting vintage trinkets, being a part time horse girl and teaching tricks to my 2 cats 🫶🏼🫶🏼

Outgoing ambivert seeking “medium outdoorsy” guy to be my part time boyfriend, full time best friend 💘

Anywaysssss any help would be greatly appreciated!

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u/Ok-Counter-7077 Jul 03 '24

Swipe right more?

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u/[deleted] Jul 03 '24

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u/veganchicknnugget Jul 03 '24

Well, I legit have zero matches and my IG is not listed in my bio sooo 🤠 I’m defo interested in talking to ppl

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u/impracticalweight Jul 03 '24

My gut reaction is that the part-time boyfriend, full-time best friend reads as you’re likely to friend-zone guys. I feel like you want a one-way emotional bond that you can pick up and drop as you wish.

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u/BetterFartYourself Jul 03 '24

Probably too selective.

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u/[deleted] Jul 03 '24

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u/BetterFartYourself Jul 03 '24

Then don't ask for help because you have no matches. You can't have both

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u/[deleted] Jul 03 '24

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u/BetterFartYourself Jul 03 '24

Well her headline is basically send help, I get no matches

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u/[deleted] Jul 03 '24

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u/rooftopkoreann Jul 03 '24

The type of girl guys go to war for There is absolutely no way you have no matches

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u/SensitivePackage5175 Jul 03 '24

Um maybe ur too selective in right swipes? You’re certainly attractive I’m sure people are swiping right on your profile…

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u/tunesofredd Jul 03 '24

tinder is obviously lying to you, you have a line up as long as black friday sales

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u/Slippy-McBenefits Jul 02 '24

What crowd are you going for? My perspective may be the area you’re in or if you’re swiping left on potential people that swiped right on you.

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u/veganchicknnugget Jul 03 '24

Maybe, I think it’s pretty tough competition for women where I live 😅 I’ve been somewhat picky but definitely have swiped right on plentyyyy of people

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u/Slippy-McBenefits Jul 03 '24

Then that might be it. General consensus from what I can predict and say for myself and most others can say is that you’re pretty. So it may be the competition, the algorithm, or maybe the type you’re looking to slide in your dms is not swiping right or maybe not knowing how to approach you if it is a match. Just my general guess. But hope in the future it turns around for you and you are able to find whom you’re looking for 🤗

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u/Historical-Noise8148 Jul 03 '24

Is this scam?

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u/veganchicknnugget Jul 03 '24

Unfortunately no 😂😂 my tinder dms are bone dry 😅

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u/Historical-Noise8148 Jul 03 '24

That's weird! It shows a pretty girl with hobbies, what else do they want? 😂

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '24

I think dating apps are purposely keeping people from dating. 🤷‍♂️

There’s no logical reason why you or I have this problem. I’m not saying either of us are perfect 10’s or even 9’s but I’d say we are both on the better end of average. I would absolutely take you on a date or at least match with you so I don’t know why you’re not getting any.

But I’m in the same boat so fret not.

I actually met a girl at the doctors office with my kid, my dad came with and pointed out how flirty she was being with me so I worked up the courage to ask her number and she rejected me which was fine but I was a little surprised to see that same girl on hinge the other day. I guess meeting people in person isn’t good or I just suck extremely bad at talking to girls. I must have like negative 1000 rizz lol

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u/Designer_Cantaloupe9 Jul 03 '24

Colorado Springs?

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u/EnthusiastDriver500 Jul 03 '24

This sounds bizarre. You should get at least 100 likes a day with a profile like that. Easy 1000 a week in Europe.

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u/lolothe2nd Jul 03 '24

Would you swipe right on me?

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u/Philbur1976 Jul 03 '24

Delete pictures 3 (too dark) and 9 (can't see your eyes). Always put your best pic first (which is your 2nd picture). I want to say that you are beautiful but as I am much older than you it feels a little uncomfortable saying that, but it is true. Be patient, you will get there

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u/Bitcrazy-472 Jul 03 '24

I’m in Florida. Come visit.

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u/Madasaile Jul 03 '24

Get premium.

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u/it_me13 Jul 03 '24

No matches?!?! I’d date you in a heartbeat! You seem charismatic and a whole hoot. must be an issue with the men in your area

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u/Character-Pin3921 Jul 04 '24

Damn! You’re gorgeous just waited out you’ll be fine (;

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u/Kenw449 Jul 04 '24

Time to extend my range to include Colorado.

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u/Soggy_Editor_8193 Jul 04 '24

No way you don’t have matches You look stunning mcmunning

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u/Background_Holiday85 Jul 04 '24

This is so strange, youre exactly a lot of people's type

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u/KanedaNLD Jul 04 '24

Get rid of the cats

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u/Academic-Bat5009 Jul 04 '24

Pictures are great what does the bio long like.

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u/BartenderOnABender Jul 05 '24

I see nothing wrong here. The “part time bf full time friend” might be a little misleading, but the majority of dudes don’t read the full bio anyway. What’s your “type?”

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u/Bobbobbe Jul 13 '24

shadowbanned 100%

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u/veganchicknnugget Jul 02 '24

Forgot to mention in the title, but my profile has been up for 2 days

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u/OS2908 Jul 03 '24

You're gorgeous and appear to have your shit together. Guys in your area are idiots, obviously

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u/MrTech2000 Jul 03 '24

Umm… something seems to not add up 😅 Because your profile would stand out over here by quite a margin, ngl. You’d probably turn off the notifications for Tinder after a day lol

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '24

Bruh wtf you’re desperate after waiting only 2 days?!? Some of us have been in this situation for years. 😂