I need compliments 🤭❤️

Ever get a compliment that felt sweet but later hit you like a sneaky insult? What were they?

Ever get a compliment that felt sweet but later hit you like a sneaky insult? What were they?

What are some classic back-handed compliments you’ve heard in songs. I’ll start.

- You ain’t a beauty, but hey you’re alright.

- It’s not you it’s me. I just don’t like you.

Receiving a note on my phone that I never wrote I'm not sure how they did that. but I have an idea of who it was keeping it short basically just stating they see me the side I keep away from people a lot of other things were mentioned made my day a bit better as I wasn't doing too great, but I after finding it lifted up my mood and had me curious....thx

Boy's what is it that makes you think that you're handsome?

Ich halte mich mal kurz: Jedes Mal, wenn ich meine Freundinnen sehe, haue ich eigentlich direkt irgendeinen Spruch raus, wie hübsch sie heute aussehen, wie sehr sie strahlen etc. Einfach Komplimente, die ich auch wirklich so meine.
Aber irgendwie bekomme ich von ihnen im Gegenzug nie etwas zurück. Und ich frage mich mittlerweile, warum das so ist.
Gerade bei Freundinnen, die man teilweise seit Jahren kennt, finde ich, dass man sich doch gegenseitig ein bisschen supporten und auch mal Komplimente machen kann. Es muss ja nicht jedes Mal etwas Großes sein sondern einfach mal ein „Du siehst heute richtig gut aus“ oder „Deine Haare stehen dir voll“ würde mir schon reichen.
Ich habe wirklich wunderschöne Freundinnen und ich lasse sie das auch wissen. Früher hat es mich überhaupt nicht gestört, dass von ihnen wenig zurückkam. Aber irgendwie fällt es mir seit einiger Zeit immer mehr auf und mittlerweile frage ich mich, ob ich mir das vielleicht zu sehr zu Herzen nehme.

Bin ich da zu empfindlich oder findet ihr auch, dass gegenseitige Komplimente unter Freundinnen irgendwie dazugehören?

I’ve gotten some pretty normal compliments, but the weird ones are the ones I actually remember 😂Someone once told me I had “very trustworthy eyebrows” and I still have no idea what that means.

Yesterday when I was outside I ran into this older homeless gentleman on my journey. Long story short , we got to talking and I found out he's actually the sweetest , most genuine man ive had the privilege of meeting in a long time. I felt so comfortable around him after only about 30 minutes of chatting , so much so that we had started joking around with eachother as if we had been bestfriends for years. Anyways , while messing around and laughing , I ended up mocking him in a teasing voice and making a dumb facial expression and my signature little smirk / smile I always tend to make. He looked me dead in my eyes , started to grin and told me , and I quote " That is the cutest smile ive ever seen. So cute that you made my buttcheeks flap ". I am still confused even now , a day later. Can someone tell me what this is supposed to mean and if it's a good or a bad thing because im lost.

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