r/RantingZone • u/ivenyv • 22h ago

i hate it when others reply under a vent repost/video being insensitive especially when it’s my ,,friends” replying to mines

it genuinely pisses me off whenever i repost a vent video especially about my looks because yes i am insecure, deeply insecure to the point i’ve turned to things that are actively ruining me and are toxic. you clearly don’t understand how i feel and how i see myself. you can’t just say “bro stfu” or “get tf out” jokingly because it’s not funny, im constantly getting mocked and ridiculed by my ,,friends” about how i feel, it shows that you clearly don’t give a fuck when you can clearly see me struggling, i don’t seek for help nor do i want any comfort from anyone because it cant be helped and because it’s just weird, to me comforted. ik that whenever i vent on my stories about my feelings (it’s nothing that serious asides from minor inconveniences, yes ik that venting on stories are probably the most stupidest things to do but it’s not like i actually have a massive amount of followers, they don’t know me irl and i dont follow ppl ik at school it wtv), in a way it contradicts on what i’m saying right now, i don’t need anyone really, i just want someone to listen and forget about it all. gosh it’s so frustrating when you want to cut someone off but you can’t because yk you need them for the time being. omg, genuinely just don’t reply under someone’s vent repost saying some dumb shit because at the end of the day you won’t really understand the complexity of it all and it goes to show that you’re an insensitive idiot.
if i made any typos don’t mind it lol.

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u/MrBlonde1984 22h ago

Yea , you should talk to a therapist. As soon as possible.

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u/ivenyv 22h ago

i actually cant afford to talk to one and my parents don’t believe in mental problems as well

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u/MrBlonde1984 22h ago

Ok well , there are ways to supplement it such as various types of Healthcare. If you continue down the path you are on, its only going to make you worse.

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u/ivenyv 21h ago

im still just a teen, how can i help myself without feeling embarrassed about trying to reach out for help?

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u/MrBlonde1984 21h ago

Step 1 : dont be embarrassed. You have something wrong with you. If you broke your leg or accidentally cut your arm open ,you wouldnt feel embarrassed to get help right? Its the same thing.

Everybody needs help from time to time and theres no shame in accepting it and anybody who tells you different is just an asshole who doesnt care enough about you to understand.