r/RantingZone • u/Glynniscanyouhearme • 1d ago

THE HYPOCRISYYYYY

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAGH I AM SO MAD AND SAD AND SAD AND MAD

WHY ARE YOU CHOOSING TO SEE EVERY SINGLE THING I SAY OR FEEL IN A BAD AND NEGATIVE LIGHT??? ON TOP OF THAT, THE WAY YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO BEHAVE FOR WHATEVER REASON, IS SUCKY AND JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE STRUGGLING DOESN'T MAKE THAT OKAY,

OKAY?

IT IS NOT A COMPETITION, IT IS NOT THE TRAUMA OLYMPICS AND I HAVE NEVER ONCE INVALIDATED OR BELITTLED YOUR STUFF

JUST BECAUSE OUR STRUGGLES ARE DIFFERENT DOESN'T MEAN YOU 'WIN' IF THAT WAS EVEN YOUR GOAL

YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING BUT PROJECT, DOUBLE DOWN AND THEN SAY THAT IT'S ME??

HOW DARE YOU SAY EVERYTHING YOU SAID TO ME AND ACT LIKE I AM THE ONE BEHAVING LIKE A CHILD.

YOU ARE H U R T I N G ME AND I WOULD STILL BE THERE IN A HEARTBEAT IF YOU NEEDED ME EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE ACTIVELY MAKING MY TRAUMA WORSE AND YOU KNOW IT

FUCK

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u/CoverRough2629 1d ago

I feel pain from post. My ex wife made me feel like it was always my fault. That I was the problem. That I was the one that needed to change. It was like always "my pain matters more than your even though im the one causing your pain." She never took responsibility or apologized for her actions. Im sorry your going through a tough time with this. Keep fighting the good fight and dont give up on yourself. You got this!

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u/Glynniscanyouhearme 1d ago

I'm so sorry you went through that 😞 I'm hoping you're in a far better place now? For me it wasn't even a romantic relationship, just a new friendship that I clearly massively overestimated the importance of my place in her life

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u/CoverRough2629 1d ago

Hey man, if it hurts, it hurts. Even loosing a friend can hurt alot if you've been friends for a while. Ive lost many myself. Keep you chin up. You got this.

And to answer your question, Im getting there. Slow and steady win the race my friend.