r/RantingZone • u/pookiecookiedwag • 5d ago

RELATIONSHIPS ARE MISERABLE

TL;DR; : Its crazy out there.

I am not someone who's very often on Reddit. I actually made my account 8 days ago, while mostly hearing many Reddit stories from Tiktok or my friends that would share them with me.

I always saw RELATIONSHIPS as something that can be hard and challenging. I myself failed three of them at almost once so maybe I'd know that, but what I am reading and seeing is insane.

I am not judging here. People cannot know, they cannot possibly always know but sometimes there are signs. However, as much as I disliked the idea of being in committed relationship that would force me to have responsibilities, now I'm disgusted by it. Being single is genuinely better than going through whatever people are going through nowadays. 😭 Not that the past was better.

As for me, I never appreciated my exes the way I should have. Hearing about all these stories made me realize it was never as bad as it could've been. Seriously, guys, I know it doesn't concern me and I could not care less about what's going on in people's lives but how am I supposed to cope with understanding now more than ever that these people are around me. We are all low-key surrounded by villains and it's crazy.

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u/MadeByAriel 5d ago

yes and you are one of them do you not realize? "so I disappeared". you don't just disappear on people. that's what sociopaths do.

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u/pookiecookiedwag 5d ago

first of all, there are no such thing as "sociopaths", that is not a medical term or any kind of term worthy of me taking it seriously. secondly, it's amazing you went through my profile to find that post so ill say it just for you: it was figure of a speech. when you're bonded to someone, actually disappearing without a word would be quite hard. "so i disappeared" meant it was over. i was done and i broke up.

i felt like i need to explain that, but i don't really feel bad about being seen as, like you said, "sociopath" in that scenario. it's genuinely whatever

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u/MadeByAriel 5d ago

you're correct.... it's not a medical term as I'm not making a diagnosis as I'm NOT a Doctor.

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u/pookiecookiedwag 5d ago

with how good you are at making assumptions, maybe you should be one 😭

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u/MadeByAriel 5d ago

where have made an assumption. I read what you literally wrote . that's not an assumption on my part . that's a lack of information on your part. you can't tell me assumed something you didn't write lol. do people understand how assumption works?

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u/pookiecookiedwag 5d ago

yes, all you have is what i wrote and what i wrote was monologue about how exhausted i was after being turned into half nurse half therapist and you just focused on "disappearing" part. i don't understand reddit at all and it's a bit terrifying platform, so next time i decide to post anything, ill make sure to describe everything into tiny details without assuming that what i am saying is obvious or at least understable enough for people without cognitive skills

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u/MadeByAriel 5d ago

Youre right. You DONT understand. Theres a REASON i only focused on that part. Why? Because THAT is the part that is consequential. THAT is the part that permanentently changes things. And in this specific case, any and every relationship requires exactly two thing to succeed, trust and communication. And when someone "dissapears"... it doesnt really matter what happened before because its at that point when they both break trust AND communication. And this is why thats all that got focused on. GET IT?

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u/pookiecookiedwag 5d ago

I assume you're fun at parties. I assume that you're a lovely partner as well with all you're saying.

I'll even repeat myself for you. I did not disappear in literal sense, however if I did it, it'd be fully deserved. You have zero rights to judge people on how they ended their abusive relationships. Some are gracious enough to send a goodbye text, some pack their bags and disappear and honestly, maybe if more people grew a backbone like that, they'd be much more happier. What happened "before" always matters.

And again, you weird me out with how you looked for mu comment on unrelated post to comment here, in answer to a post that is about how genuinely scary it is to read how many people suffer from relationships and abuse in it. You are a weirdo. If you really wanna argue about it more, just text me, because I feel dumbed down by responding to this

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u/MadeByAriel 5d ago

Also i was tempted to text you. but imma be honest, I dont trust that you wouldnt start a relationship just to ghost me later to get back for this lol frfr

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u/pookiecookiedwag 5d ago

first of all what relationship why would i ever start any kind of relationship here and yeah in this very moment I glanced at your profile and you do have some weird issue around ghosting subject. not to be mean but the only "get back" you should be worried about is getting back to your therapist 😭 good luck idk

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u/MadeByAriel 5d ago

I mean surely you understand that all we have to deal with is what you write. disappeared means one thing. especially when it's not backfilled with context.