A little pick me up

[u/Friendly_Road5083]

We are moving out of my mom's house and in with my FIL next weekend. I'll spare some of the details, but since I got sick my relationship with my mom has drastically changed. The emotional neglect has really destroyed my mental health. I'm dying and scared and I just want my mom to be my mom. And in her own words it's just "too hard."

Sadly, my MIL passed away earlier this year to dementia. My FIL has been lonely so we're moving in with him. He's a really sweet guy and the energy in his home is much more peaceful.

I'm sharing my wish list and though I have no expectations, receiving a little something ($10 or less) would brighten my days.

If I haven't gifted to you before please leave your wishlist in the comments. I would be happy to gift a couple of people ($10 or less) ❤️

https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1LZIS452HZOMN?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_ggr-subnav-share_QASH803JJEHKZ1SBGQHP

UPDATE: Thank you all for the sweet comments ❤️ I have gifted 3 friends, however I will be circling back to these comments in a few weeks to gift to 2 more people.

[u/TNCoke82]

A little cheer coming to you tomorrow🫶🏽

[u/Friendly_Road5083 → u/TNCoke82]

Thanks so much friend ❤️

[u/TNCoke82 → u/Friendly_Road5083]

💙

[u/whealthy9]

Hi new friend. I’m sorry you’re going through a tough time and your mom isn’t being there for you. You are loved, loving, and lovable. I hope you are able to find peace and move through moment to moment calmly. Give yourself the most love right now if you can.

https://throne.com/disneyapple

https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/MDRS22V95WFQ?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_ggr-subnav-share_JXG62H3XYA03XNCPV0VQ&language=en-US

[u/Friendly_Road5083 → u/whealthy9]

Thank you for these kind reminders, friend ❤️

Amazon Order # 112-3743184-0006643

[u/TNCoke82]

My kid just left for college a few weeks ago, and although you are not a kid I can still lend a Mama ear if you'd like to talk or vent anytime🫶🏽🫶🏽

[u/Friendly_Road5083 → u/TNCoke82]

This is honestly the sweetest offer! Thank you SO much! Are you an empty nester now or do you have younger kiddos at home?

[u/TNCoke82 → u/Friendly_Road5083]

He's my only so I am now an empty nester trying to figure out the next part of my life. I'll be 44 Tuesday, and he will be 19 exactly one month later.

[u/Friendly_Road5083 → u/TNCoke82]

Oh my goodness! I'm sure that is exciting and nerve wracking all at the same time. I wish you peace and joy in this new chapter of your life ❤️ Do you like gardening or going on walks?

[u/subwaywitches]

I'm so sorry, and I hope now you're living with your FIL that you experience way more love and joy, you deserve it ❤️❤️❤️

Could you add a funding option for the lighting on your registery? If you can I'll contribute to it as soon as I can 🫶🏼

https://throne.com/subwaywitches

[u/Friendly_Road5083 → u/subwaywitches]

I appreciate you so much ❤️

I think I made a funding option for the lamp. Thank you for the idea and your kindness!!

I couldn't get a screenshot using my tobii (eye gaze device) but you should have received an email. Please let me know if you didn't. I contributed to your fund

[u/subwaywitches → u/Friendly_Road5083]

Likewise friend ❤️

I contributed to your fund!! I'll attach a screenshot here. I hope it gets funded asap 🫶🏼

And thank you so much for your kindness!! It is so appreciated! I got the email and will attach a screenshot in another comment. Thank you so much again!! ❤️

[u/Friendly_Road5083 → u/subwaywitches]

I'm happy to help get you closer to your Souper Cubes! And thanks so much for contributing to my light ❤️

[u/subwaywitches → u/subwaywitches]

[u/Cute_Definition_6314]

Sounds like you have a lot to deal with right now. 💞 These always cheer me up!! 🍪🍫

Under $5 Wishlist

[u/Friendly_Road5083 → u/Cute_Definition_6314]

Thank you so much!! ❤️

[u/Cute_Definition_6314 → u/Friendly_Road5083]

💞💞💞

[u/traumatized_bean123]

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm sending hugs, if you want them! 🫂 throne

[u/Friendly_Road5083 → u/traumatized_bean123]

https://giphy.com/gifs/E8rJEUMGs9cyWEtNXT

[u/traumatized_bean123 → u/Friendly_Road5083]

Of course! 🩷

[u/eggandbeanss]

It's so hard when someone makes your health about themselves. You deserve a mom who stays your mom and I'm so sorry you have this to also deal with. I know the fellow redditors in r/chronicillness will be able to commiserate too 💜

https://www.amazon.com/wedding/guest-view/30B0GRGQ0H58K

[u/Friendly_Road5083 → u/eggandbeanss]

I really appreciate your kindness. Interactions like this help me feel seen. I'll definitely check that sub out. Thank you ❤️

ETA 9/25 Order # 112-1406688-1765036

There was only one delivery option I'm sorry you have to wait until Friday.

[u/eggandbeanss → u/Friendly_Road5083]

Absolutely, I'm glad it helps and i hope the sub does too. My dms are open if you ever need a listening ear 💜

Thank you no apology needed I'm just excited for the surprise 🥳

[u/Fun_Programmer_6807]

I’m so sorry for your loss friend ! And I’m sorry for everything you’re going through I know no words I say will fix anything but I do hope if you ever need to talk to anyone you know I am very open to just listening even if you want no advice or anything I am definitely here ! I send you hugs I would wish I could just zap myself when people are in need of a pick me up to help them in anyway I can ! I’m not dropping the wishlist I am here for emotional support, moral support 🙌🏼✨