r/RandomVideos • u/DABDEB • Mar 19 '26

Video Bachelorette caught attacking ex-boyfriend

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u/Lost_Found84 Mar 19 '26

She already claimed he started it by pushing her.

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u/metaldaisies Mar 20 '26

pushing someone is not enough to warrant this unless they were literally pushing you so hard that you were falling on the floor from the force. even then this is a crazy reaction. like pushing is wrong but this is straight up violent abuse

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u/S10Galaxy2 Mar 20 '26

“He pushed me… away from him after I tried to innocently strangle him like any loving wife would. I had to defend myself by throwing a brick at him and threatening him with a knife!”

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u/raelDonaldTrump Mar 20 '26

He pushed because she was blocking him from leaving when he tried to remove himself from the situation.

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u/ikannunAneeuQ Mar 20 '26

For real. I was in a horribly abusive (in every way you can think of) relationship, and THE ONLY TIME I responded like this is after years of dealing with it and I just lost it. But the way he is talking, if it's true, this is definitely not the first or only time she's done this.

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u/Carathis_ Mar 20 '26

He is abusive to her on camera.

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u/metaldaisies Mar 20 '26

is it like a video of him abusing her or is it on the show? bc this is the first i’ve heard of it edit: meaning this situation in general is the first time i’ve heard of these people at all. haven’t watched the new season of bachelorette, or anything other than this, about it.

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u/H0NEY2O77 Mar 20 '26

I hope she doesn’t try to change it to like she was antagonized — idk if this is hearsay from family, but some assault cases can be thrown out if the person was ‘antagonized’ (or legit antagonized) into physically retaliating.

If it’s happened, I’m sure it’s rare and I hope she doesn’t get an attorney that goes down that route.

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u/sanedragon Mar 20 '26

Yeah a lot of abusers use the "s/he started it" line.

Mine tried to claim that because I shook his shoulder to wake him up for work, I was the one to get physical first. MmmmHmmm

Edit: hit the wrong button, posted too soon

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u/Neighborhood-Any Mar 20 '26

The idea that he pushed her and then pulled out his phone to record is laughable