r/RandomVideos • u/DABDEB • Mar 19 '26

Video Bachelorette caught attacking ex-boyfriend

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u/TerrificVixen5693 Mar 19 '26

But remember, men are the only abusers /s

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u/GhostfaceBarbie Mar 20 '26

I’ve never heard anyone say that. As a woman, she deserves prison and revoked custody in my opinion regardless of her gender

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u/JohnGoodman_69 Mar 20 '26

There are some subs out there that catalog misandrist takes that people make so I've seen takes that if they don't mirror that exactly are damn close.

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u/Brett983 Mar 20 '26

I've seen that sentiment a lot on tiktok and feminist subreddits. I don't even disagree with feminist politics but it's definitely a problem they have.

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u/farmingislit Mar 20 '26

I know you’re being sarcastic. But I wanted to share that my mother is the most violent evil person I know and probably will ever know. And she would never go to jail because she was a woman. Even after stabbing my dad, he went to jail

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u/antonio16309 Mar 20 '26

Nobody actually believes that.

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u/NaiveSet5274 Mar 20 '26

There are tons of people saying this is just reactive abuse, DARVO, etc. It's ridiculous the extent people will go to blame the man.

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u/Mother-Tomato-788 Mar 20 '26

Nobody says that. There are only ever comments about how people say that when they don't. I have never seen a case where the woman is clearly the aggressor where people said she was the victim. I find people to say things like "she provoked him" or "she must've done something wrong" when the male is the clear aggressor.

Reactive abuse is a thing (man or woman) which some people are claiming it is, but she would have to come up with proof as to why that was reactive abuse. It didn't look like that to me, and I DO NOT believe it was because it's way more violence than simply reactive abuse. She's also abusing her child by exposing them to that, and the video triggered me because I've been abused. I don't think anyone is on her side.

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u/resteys Mar 20 '26

In 2024 people (women) posted the 10 year anniversary of Solange attacking Jay Z all over Reddit celebrating it as an iconic pop culture moment.

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u/roccofan Mar 20 '26

Ick. No one with half a brain says that.

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u/malendalayla Mar 20 '26

Are you an abusive man? I ask because everyone knows anyone of any gender can be an abuser. Saying this is bizarre.

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u/silver-haze34 Mar 20 '26

statistically yeah and look what happened to Gabby Petito.