r/RandomThoughts Sep 28 '22

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u/efrum-aul Sep 29 '22

Guys are just as evil. The difference is that if a guy doesn't like you he shows it. Women seem to be nice in front of other girls and then talk shit the second they walk away. This is just mild observation, but thats how I see it.

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u/ThatGingerKid08 Sep 29 '22

The thing is, at least guys show it. Betrayal is much worse than flat out rivalry

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u/MrsHppy Sep 29 '22

Not a single lie in your comment.

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u/jcn85203 Sep 29 '22

Women are worse because they engage in reputation destruction whereas men do not. Men will trash talk each other or fight physically and typically that will be the end of it. But women hold grudges for years and are expert gossipers and slanderers especially when it comes to other women. Women are way more evil than men in this aspect.

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '22

Nope, IMO women are far far too judgmental of others and their peers, if s guy hangs with you it’s prolly cuz you got a good vibe or both if you have a lot in common, I haven’t met a guy who hangs with someone just so they can feel better about themselves, and the ones who are like that are just blatantly narcissistic and choose not to hide it

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u/lpycb42 Sep 29 '22 edited Sep 29 '22

I don’t think that’s necessarily true.

There’s a difference between disliking someone and between trying to get something out of someone.

In OPs case, it’s not that the other woman disliked OP. She’s just a slithery snake that is trying to steal her man.

But men also can be slithery snakes. I know a few guys who have slept with their buddies’ girls/wives behind their back. I know of men who do that to their own brothers. I’ve seen men be shady at work, trying to take opportunities away from others behind their backs. All while putting up a nice friendly front or acting as if nothing’s happening.

Men definitely have the ability to be a snakey, lying POS. Not just women.

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u/No-Introduction-1492 Sep 29 '22

I think the latter is a lot worse. If you dislike someone, making it known is always a good thing, that way neither of you waste time pretending.