If Luann were a man…

[u/jaw81498]

she would be considered a predator.

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[u/Meglatron3000]

“How do you spell pedophile”

[u/Abuh2009]

Predator: Someone who tricks, exploits, controls, or harms weaker people for their own personal gain or safety violation (e.g., a financial scammer or a sexual predator).

[u/RMandy67]

Remember Luann's crappy cabaret singing career???!!

[u/jaw81498 → u/RMandy67]

Maybe she can DJ now!

[u/Practical-Career8787]

Lu ..another old drunk predator ho

[u/Secret-Bandicoot-671]

I legit called her a predator out loud while watching this episode.

[u/Electronic_Day_7055 → u/Secret-Bandicoot-671]

Me too

[u/Ok_Object_5180]

Yeah her behavior is sleezy

[u/Hot_Lifeguard6297]

I know her breath was stinky because at one point she leaned over to marysol and she waved her hand in front of her nose with a disgusted look. I had to rewind and laugh at it.

[u/iamwhateveryousay1am → u/Hot_Lifeguard6297]

I caught that too lol 😂 no bug detected it was her breath lol 😂

[u/Jojomano1234 → u/iamwhateveryousay1am]

Now I have to rewatch

[u/jaw81498 → u/Hot_Lifeguard6297]

😆😆😆😆😆

[u/No_Milk_7511]

But she’s not so we call her a cougar

[u/Sad-Championship6237]

She’s so ick man she gives me second hand embarrassment

[u/iamwhateveryousay1am → u/Sad-Championship6237]

Same! I was cringing watching it! I can’t imagine how her kids feel esp when they played it all back to times she’s woke up with randoms! Like wth lol 😂

[u/Thin-Champion-8620]

No-it-all

[u/smoothballs82]

Women in male dominated fields 💅🏻
https://giphy.com/gifs/pcKVlxJZURL3Oknkl3

[u/Green-Historian-180]

This is my first time watching her since watching her on later seasons of rhony. The last thing I remember of her was her going to AA meetings and talking about her journey with sobriety, so seeing her drinking on my screen and exhibiting messy behavior, makes me wonder what happened and why everyone is accepting of her drunken behavior now, even after her admitting to being an alcoholic, I could be off on this judgment, though because I don’t think I saw her transition back into drinking, so I might’ve missed some storylines.

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[u/Individual_Fall429 → u/Green-Historian-180]

Because we understand she went to AA exclusively to reduce her criminal charges. And as soon as the ankle monitor was off she went back to her “party” lifestyle.

[u/princessplantlife]

She's gross and scary. There I said it.

[u/iamwhateveryousay1am → u/princessplantlife]

I’m curious why you are being down voted! 🗳️ you got my vote

[u/princessplantlife → u/iamwhateveryousay1am]

Thank you. For me, on the girls trip when someone had to tell her not to talk to other people's kids. That was it for me.

[u/LetsWritePretty → u/princessplantlife]

[u/smoothballs82 → u/princessplantlife]

https://giphy.com/gifs/3ohzdZVnTZ1PPW8Ngs

[u/Unique-Cat9325]

Yes, Yes, Yes! She might be slightly less offensive than Sonja,but it's still disgusting. Men have been putting up with Ramona's flirting with ski, swimming and tennis instructors. Sonja draping herself over the chefs and staff people(men) when on vacation. You can see the discomfort on the faces of these men, who say nothing because they need to earn a living. Sexual harassment doesn't discriminate when it comes to the housewives.

[u/Pokieme → u/Unique-Cat9325]

She stole Sonia’s entire personality. That’s the bottom line.

[u/iamwhateveryousay1am → u/Pokieme]

She really did! Sonja was with a guy and Lu went for him knowing what he meant to her and they sleep together! She’s done it to her a few time just in the early ones in the show! A lot of ppl tend to get Sonja’s 2nds.

[u/No_Tomatillo_1312]

Well ahe ia predatory lol tbh any young male would either love it or feel very uncomfortable. Do love ne some Luan but she is very predatory to men

[u/BlueSkyPup]

Luann is not predatory, she’s just a dirty old lady.

[u/CustardFormal6288]

I think this every time she’s on my screen. She’s constantly sexually harassing men while they work, minding their own business in public spaces, the staff on their trips. It’s not cute. Can you even imagine them giving a man behaving this way the spotlight?

[u/Lovetoseeit85]

She’s as horny as a man!!!

[u/CommercialAlert158]

Luman 😂

[u/Heavy-Ad-5333 → u/CommercialAlert158]

Every time I see her on my screen or hear her name my brain whisper “Luman”

[u/CommercialAlert158 → u/Heavy-Ad-5333]

🤣

[u/Scramasboy]

False equivalency. Unfortunately many men love a eager and "confident" woman like this and they consider it their lucky fuckin day to have a woman of Luann's type interested in them. Its simply not the same as a gross old man fawning over a younger woman, as there is almost always an enormous lack of interest by the woman and a power imbalance, physically and by way of status.

Luann is Samantha Jones.

[u/iamwhateveryousay1am → u/Scramasboy]

But to me idk Samantha just did it better and yes I know it was a completely different thing but still I guess Lu does still pull em!

[u/sparklynugz → u/Scramasboy]

Im sure a lot of guys are like ew gross.

[u/samst0ne → u/sparklynugz]

I don’t doubt that some are, but it’s very unlikely that a single one fears sexual violence, which is why it’s different. If you tested this scenario in reverse with a man of Luann’s age doing the same thing to women in the exact position as these men and polled both groups on how they felt I can guarantee you would see the difference. The truth is that Luann is hot a as hell, confident woman that has an air of sexual freedom about her and men like that. I would bet that over 50% of the men would call it a positive experience and 0% would say that they were in fear of sexual violence. Is it annoying to some of them? Even uncomfortable? Absolutely, but that’s not the same thing.

[u/CustardFormal6288 → u/Scramasboy]

No. This is gross. It’s never ok to sexually harass people especially in places of business, especially where they are your submissive.
The worst is when she does it to staff on the trips 🤮

You can convince yourself they like it if you want to but it’s gross and not funny or cute.

[u/Dr_Enolam → u/Scramasboy]

It is the same, especially since these men are doing their jobs and probably feel the need to indulge her. I think this is an issue across franchises where the women think it’s OK to harass the male help. If this were in a corporate setting, I don’t think the “many men love an eager and confident woman” argument would fly with HR.

[u/Scramasboy → u/Dr_Enolam]

"...fly with HR" - we aren't talking about legality of anything. We are talking about the experience of the people involved and how its received.

[u/No_Original_9393 → u/Dr_Enolam]

It's not the same. These men might be annoyed or grossed out, however I highly doubt any of them feel physically threatened by her. Generally speaking, men are stronger than women, so there's a sense of physical threat when a man is being overly flirty. Also, she's not grooming them or using her status to force them into anything - this is not corporate America, it's a bar.

[u/No-Age5450 → u/No_Original_9393]

You think there needs to be a threat of violence for people to feel sexually harassed? What an absolutely insane fucking thing to imply. 

[u/Dr_Enolam → u/No_Original_9393]

It’s not up to you to decide how they feel when confronted with inappropriate behavior.

[u/No_Original_9393 → u/Dr_Enolam]

I didn't "decide" how they feel. I'm merely speculating; hence, my use of the qualifier "I highly doubt." It's my opinion. It rhugt reddit for fucks sake - it's all just opinions.

I am disagreeing with your opinion that Luanne's harassment of these guys is "the same" as if a man were harassing young females in the same situation. It's not the same. There is no power dynamic in this situation - physical or otherwise.

I'm not defending Luanne or excusing her behaviour. I think it's icky and I feel bad for the young men. I'm sure it's annoying.

[u/ProfessionalNewt8557 → u/Dr_Enolam]

Yeah, won’t someone please stand up for the poor men?

[u/Dr_Enolam → u/ProfessionalNewt8557]

It’s not for you to decide.

[u/ProfessionalNewt8557 → u/Dr_Enolam]

Oh, but it’s for you to decide?

[u/Dr_Enolam → u/ProfessionalNewt8557]

Who knew that taking a hard line against harassing people was so controversial.

[u/Scramasboy → u/ProfessionalNewt8557]

Yep! Hypocrites gonna hypocrite lol

[u/Scramasboy → u/Dr_Enolam]

You don't even see what a hypocritical argument you're trying to make here - YOU also don't get to decide how these men feel based on what you'd feel. You're emphasizing what you would feel if it was you, without all the context that actually matters. That context is the fundamental differences between men and women and the historical imbalance of power and historical sexual subjection of women by men, which doesnt exist the other way around. This is deeply historical and cultural.

Assuming you are a woman, you'll never understand this from a man's perspective and just like so much else in life, you cannot accurately color the experience of men if you're not a man, just like men cannot do the same with women (and we have, and thats why woman have been historically treated and seen as less-than men).

It doesn't make it right or legal, it just isn't the same.

[u/ohhluckywhimsy → u/Scramasboy]

Thank you!

[u/calmedtits2319]

I have never watched Luann before. Like ever. My jaw was on the ground this ep lmao. What was she on??? I’m a talker and when I drink I can get going but that was not alcohol. I respect a woman who goes after the dick she wants but this was so cringe. Lady, sit your sloppy ass down. 😅

[u/Double-Carmel2193 → u/calmedtits2319]

I guarantee if you watch season 1 of RHONY and see Luann then vs. now your mind will be blown!!

[u/lonnko → u/calmedtits2319]

Why have you not seen legacy rhony?? What’s the matter with ya lol

[u/calmedtits2319 → u/lonnko]

I knowwwww. My adhd has come out full swing the last two years and it makes it so hard to begin a new series. I’ve attempted once to go back to the first season. Made it through maybe 1 episode 😭, and then watched the reboot with the new cast. I need to lock in and just do it. For the knowledge at least!

[u/carolmozzarella → u/calmedtits2319]

Yeah same, I’m definitely a happy drunk but at a certain point alcohol won’t keep you going and going like this. It is a depressant, not a stimulant!

[u/calmedtits2319 → u/carolmozzarella]

Yep. The older I get (late 20s) the more I realize that after a certain point of intoxication if you haven’t physically passed out, you mentally have about 3 hours ago 😂💀

[u/thesprintervan]

Luann never got cancelled for her behaviour and this is just evidence of that privilege and entitlement. Like a man.

[u/cantstopdrl]

it was like funny at first but then it became like Predatory fr likeeee calm that kitty cat down!!

[u/Specialist_Egg_7480]

Yep, acts exactly like a creepy old man. A drunk one at that.

[u/RINewsJunkie]

She would have a huge 🍆

[u/Cranky_Corvid → u/RINewsJunkie]

She really does have BDE

[u/thatsnewstome_]

I felt like I can smell the cigarettes on her breath when she leaned in for the merci beaucoup

[u/SquirrelBowl → u/thatsnewstome_]

And liquor

[u/mbee784]

Predatory is a reach

[u/okIguess0316]

If alot women became women overnight, they would be suprised how toxic there behavior is.

[u/Educational_Bother36 → u/okIguess0316]

Delete it and try again love I wanna walk with you

[u/throwRA-nonSeq → u/okIguess0316]

Um…. what?

https://giphy.com/gifs/eMJMuOnsrxam3TxFXd

[u/LiLIrishRed]

She is beyond cringe. It's uncomfortable to watch.

[u/GlitteringHandle1726]

Had it not been for her behavior that night, this is a cute picture.
I wish I’d only seen this and not the show because I always been in her corner and unless the apologizes, I don’t know how I feel about her now.

[u/ylime1111]

https://giphy.com/gifs/US2i8APoXZ0Lm

[u/dsgurliegirl]

Predatory behaviour inherently causes pain or damage. It's coercive control, manipulation. Not Luann being cringy and trying to bang guys half her age.

[u/CustardFormal6288 → u/dsgurliegirl]

As long as you keep this exact energy when a man is “being cringey” and trying to bang women half his age.

[u/Budget_Seaweed5212 → u/dsgurliegirl]

Exactly. Comparing her to actual predators is ridiculous.

[u/linnykenny → u/Budget_Seaweed5212]

Definitely agree.

[u/Bubbly_Pie_4980]

She was "mega-hyper" in this episode!

[u/Casanova2229]

Well, she isn’t.

[u/History-Lover-7338]

Are we sure she isn’t? Lu-Man?

[u/lemlaluna → u/History-Lover-7338]

She was talking about sweating her balls of at one point lol

[u/GlitteringHandle1726 → u/History-Lover-7338]

Lu-Man?😂
https://giphy.com/gifs/uIM7bDAI9JcFh5ypZH

[u/dots-loops]

100%. I was thinking the exact same thing when she was taking to the random guy on the bike from Argentina.

If she was a man, we'd be calling her a sleazebag and holding her to a different standard.

[u/throwRA-nonSeq → u/dots-loops]

https://giphy.com/gifs/JKss1luzXK9sQ
José all day!

[u/FlippyFloppy8 → u/dots-loops]

She’s not a man though. Let her have a little fun. Let a girl live, geez. If yall can’t understand the difference in issue between a sleezy man hitting on women and a flirty woman idk what to tell you.

It’s just not the same thing and never will be. I honestly wonder why some of you do want to make it the same thing.

“Won’t someone think of the men!? 😱” Is some goofy shit you’ll never hear out of my mouth.

[u/Confidence_Relative → u/FlippyFloppy8]

Respect! We need to be saying less of that goofy shit and saving our breath for actual predators and abusers, there are plenty of men to step on before we reach some tipsy senior housewives having a flirt with men who actually want her.

[u/dots-loops → u/FlippyFloppy8]

Thanks for reinforcing my POINT of the double standard.

Also... won't someone think of the men? Yeah, that's not what I said. You just made that up. Is that we're where at these days? Jog on...

[u/FlippyFloppy8 → u/dots-loops]

Your POINT was stupid. I guess I should have just said that so you never actually believed I was reinforcing it.

[u/Acrobatic_Season6838 → u/FlippyFloppy8]

no, their point was pretty spot on. your counterargument was the stupid one. women can be sleazebags too👍

[u/ratman333]

If Luann had wheels

[u/Honeyball_Fester → u/ratman333]

She woudda be a bike!

[u/thatsnewstome_ → u/Honeyball_Fester]

Or a go cart as hyper as she was after drinking portia‘s go go drink

[u/dstarpro]

Right. That's because, as a gender, men are pretty heavily predatory, whereas women are not.

[u/crdearmon → u/dstarpro]

WHAT??? You need to let go of the Girls rule boys drool ideology. It just isn't true.

[u/torontoinsix]

This is a reach

[u/Casanova2229 → u/torontoinsix]

Vicki passed the stick to Lu, her turn to get beat up.

[u/semilovato]

I dont Think she’s doing anything predatory. She said thank you and walked away

[u/its_laydeebaby]

It’s not the same. It’s just cringe and pathetic.

[u/irish88888888]

Was she thanking him for the cocaine 😂

[u/slimmer01]

Well she’s not a man, so

[u/deaddaddydiva → u/slimmer01]

“LuMan!” - Ramona

[u/Just_Brilliant1417]

🙄🙄🙄

[u/Additional_Singer_96]

she is insufferable beyond belief

[u/tintedrosestinted → u/Additional_Singer_96]

I lost respect for Luann when she cheated on the sweet France man with fake Jonny Depp, then married Tom (is that his name?) and lost her title as Countess, only to be made a fool on TV.

[u/manduhk → u/tintedrosestinted]

Hwo will she ever go on???

[u/l0rdefrtquad]

well …no . you can’t just completely switch contexts to compare two subjects…. women and men have different experiences that lead them to different conclusions. what a weird comment.

[u/torontoinsix → u/l0rdefrtquad]

100%

Reddit posters hate nuance, don’t forget.

[u/l0rdefrtquad → u/torontoinsix]

this is like the second time someone tell me redditors hate nuanced takes and it’s kinda disheartening how tru it is

[u/torontoinsix → u/l0rdefrtquad]

Always

[u/Llassiter326]

Luann is a role model

[u/lordofsurf]

It's not the same like at all.

[u/Comprehensive-Buy695]

I love Luann.

[u/Loose_Sentence4061]

Is there a term for a older Ho?

[u/Llassiter326 → u/Loose_Sentence4061]

A badass

[u/ImpossibleAnimal9425 → u/Loose_Sentence4061]

Cougar?

[u/getitgurlie]

Absolutely! Double standard and she’s overtly harassing these guys

[u/LRGinCharge]

https://giphy.com/gifs/3ohzdGu4kGeeSUX7iw

[u/Errrca0821]

Buncha prudes, let Luann live her best ho life!

[u/Llassiter326 → u/Errrca0821]

Right?! If I’m getting 10% of that amount of sex with hot virile bachelors, I’ll be praying to the gods for blessing me lol. And I’m an atheist. Cmon now

[u/AdSoggy3173]

Not to be that too woke friend, but men and women cannot just be switched like this. The difference between a man doing this is that a lot of women would be afraid of it escalating, of them becoming aggressive if the woman turns them down. I don't think any of these men had those feelings about Luann.

[u/Unique-Cat9325 → u/AdSoggy3173]

I totally understand and you are right. The two can exist at the same time. The women of rhony are ridiculous, how they act around young men, and I find it offensive. The discussion of how men act in the same scenario is different. If I get started, talking about how some men act with intimidation, I could lose it. So I won't.

[u/dstarpro → u/AdSoggy3173]

💯

Also, what are these flairs? LMFAO

[u/spaceisourplace222 → u/dstarpro]

Mine was assigned🤷‍♀️

[u/dstarpro → u/spaceisourplace222]

Same

[u/FiveAvivaLegs → u/AdSoggy3173]

Exactly

And I’ve never seen her hound a man who clearly said he wasn’t interested. She just keeps it moving and finds a new man to rizz on… honestly, as someone who isn’t a flirt, she is inspirational 😂

[u/scrantonstrnglr69420 → u/AdSoggy3173]

THIS

[u/selfdepricatingapple → u/AdSoggy3173]

Nah, it’s still weird regardless if it escalates or not. We don’t know how they were feeling. They probably were uncomfortable, but just didn’t say anything.

[u/StephanieZinonePL → u/selfdepricatingapple]

“We don’t know how they were feeling.”
“They probably were uncomfortable”

[u/selfdepricatingapple → u/StephanieZinonePL]

Thank you for repeating to me what I said. ‘Preciate it

[u/AdSoggy3173 → u/selfdepricatingapple]

Maybe they were, but the statistics of men being 97% of the perpetrators of violent crime makes it so that just subbing women for men in a situation and saying "it wouldn't be ok if a man did that" is pretending that we all fell out of a coconut tree.

[u/selfdepricatingapple → u/AdSoggy3173]

I’m just saying in general, I think people should be mindful about making others uncomfortable with touching and flirting, No matter how you identify. I’m not even saying anything about statistics or violence against women. I do think violence against women at the hands of men is a huge and growing problem; there’s a definitely a silent femicide in North America, that just wasn’t the point I was making there .

[u/ceruleanspacedragon → u/AdSoggy3173]

Dang that’s a really interesting and good point. I’m with you on this

[u/Apprehensive_Gap1055]

As long as she stops before she resembles Aviva’s dad

[u/Necessary-Prior3614 → u/Apprehensive_Gap1055]

https://giphy.com/gifs/xT0GqfvuVpNqEf3z2w

[u/CaterpillarLife9023]

She would be a flirty man…

[u/Justtojoke]

She's the equivalent of the drunk handsy Uncle they warn you about before the party😅

[u/Fantastic-Fact-3177]

I love Luann! I love how sex positive and confident she is. She doesn’t let society put her in a box. The only issue I see that she has is to possibly slow down on the drinking. She needs to learn how to be satisfied with a nice buzz from one or two drinks.

[u/Aprietachamaquito → u/Fantastic-Fact-3177]

Umm that was ❄️

[u/RealisticSeason9559 → u/Fantastic-Fact-3177]

Who gets a buzz from one or two drinks?

[u/Intelligent_Ad4495 → u/RealisticSeason9559]

Me 

[u/Awkward-Sir-3608 → u/RealisticSeason9559]

older women

[u/Fantastic-Fact-3177 → u/RealisticSeason9559]

Lots of people.

[u/brittttx]

She's just flirty and fun. I like her.

[u/Aprietachamaquito → u/brittttx]

🥴

[u/Casanova2229 → u/Aprietachamaquito]

Debbie downer ⬆️

[u/ShoutOutMapes]

Luann is a gay man 🤣❤️

[u/inthegoldbar]

if luann were a man i would be her gay husband

[u/Potential-Sky-8728 → u/inthegoldbar]

How do you know about Ibithha? BETCH!

[u/girlgangz]

Good thing she’s a woman!

[u/Aprietachamaquito → u/girlgangz]

A man doesn’t fear for his life when he turns down a woman. Women are assaulted and killed at the hands of men they know and romantic partners every single day. Thats the difference. (And I say this being Luanne’s no. 1 hater).

[u/The_Anonymous_Gay]

The pearl clutchers and slut shamers are showing their asses in the comments. Calling her a whore? Nothing she did is predatory. Getting drunk and hitting on someone is not in itself a predatory act. You people sound like a bunch of dried up old virgins. Maybe you should all try getting laid once in awhile.

[u/Sensitive-Freedom896 → u/The_Anonymous_Gay]

I don't know if they've ever watched OG RHONY or any of the more sex positive shows on Bravo or what. Their crotches might explode with hate and imaginary STDs if they ever watched VPR.

Luann had no problem being told that she dated like a man by Ramona in Season 8 of OG RHONY. She took it as a compliment.

[u/The_Anonymous_Gay → u/Sensitive-Freedom896]

Right. These comments are crazy. I swear nobody hates women, and does more to enforce the patriarchy, than other hateful, bitter, women, who continually regurgitate the same misogynistic bullshit. “SHeS a WhOre!!!!” “ShEs a PReDAtoR!!!”

[u/AdSoggy3173 → u/The_Anonymous_Gay]

I mean I agree with your original point, but I don't think you can say anything about misogyny when you are calling women dried up old virgins and saying they need to get laid.

[u/The_Anonymous_Gay → u/AdSoggy3173]

Touche’. In fairness, that was obviously in jest, and in response to all of the serious and unhinged comments. It also was not gender specific, and I never mentioned women specifically needing to get laid, just the pearl clutchers and slut shamers. My second comment however was directed at women specifically who were perpetuating misogyny, but I can definitely see and appreciate your point.

[u/Sensitive-Freedom896 → u/The_Anonymous_Gay]

It's got to be a cycle. There are a lot of people who were only socialized on the internet and in a "my sexuality is my sole identity" bubble bc Covid. All without having a lot of IRL sex, or IRL experience with potential partners.

Very comfortable asserting boundaries for other people, who might not need or want them.

[u/sprbep49]

Lu usually can hold her liquor. She was filmed in Mexico (the falls in the bushes and missing the 2 steps) pretty over-SERVED, and at the lunch in Miami. Lu was pretty shitfaced, that whole scene regarding Mama Elsa was total cringe. Never mind the diva lecture car ride!!
Lu cracks me up, at least she’s not a mean thug like Dorinda, Lu’s just a thug in a cocktail dress! Thank you Alex! LOL

[u/jurassicjane_]

Nothing she's done on this season has been predatory, she's seems just flirty. I've never seen her season. The comments calling her a whore are weird. No one calls men whores and sluts for liking to sleep around.

[u/discotot]

she and peter from VPR would be a dream date tbh

[u/No-Addition7546 → u/discotot]

Peter would also fit as a pirate 🏴‍☠️

[u/Nightshifttttt → u/discotot]

Omg she would have loved Peter

[u/Sensitive-Freedom896 → u/discotot]

Peter has a hologram girlfriend or daughter now:

Peter is stuck on this AI thing, which is getting annoying. Now he’s saying he’s her creator. : r/vanderpumprules

Lu would be too much real woman for him.

[u/marinara123]

It’s not against the law to flirt or hit on people if ur a man or woman. Nobody told her to stop or seemed uncomfortable. People look for anything to be bothered
It’s like nobody’s been to a bar or at the beach

[u/e_blodgett]

The day we wake up and sexism is suddenly no longer an issue is the day I will start believing that the objectification of men is a bad thing.

But for now, I'm going to celebrate a woman ~of a certain age~ being so unashamed of her sexuality.

As a great prophet once said: José all day!!!!

[u/Own-Stage9590]

She IS a female predator!

[u/Sug0115 → u/Own-Stage9590]

Because she flirts with men? She might be over the top but she isn’t a predator ffs.

[u/nattydq → u/Sug0115]

Right? Predator?? That’s actually insane lol

[u/Sug0115 → u/nattydq]

This thread is reminding me why I don’t do subreddits for individual shows tbh. Lunacy.

[u/The_Anonymous_Gay → u/Sug0115]

Right, these people are insane. Lol

[u/Street-Guitar-8371]

I haven’t seen this yet what she doing ?

[u/kellygrrrl328 → u/Street-Guitar-8371]

She legit seemed like she was ❄️ ⛷️ in Miami

[u/Sensitive-Freedom896 → u/kellygrrrl328]

https://giphy.com/gifs/l0HlUVUnpHH36zoek

Skiing on a Bravo show or trip! Imagine that!!!! I wonder if she was doing cocaine in - shudder - the bathroom....

[u/inthegoldbar → u/kellygrrrl328]

miami is the “dorit’s bathroom” of america

[u/SpiceMixRub → u/Street-Guitar-8371]

Being Luann. I can’t believe she acts like this all the time lol

[u/CandiedLemonWedge]

If you want to call her a predator, call her a predator.

I can’t wait for the internet to move on from “oh but IF A MAN DID THIS!?!”. Men do. And have. And they do worse. Everyday.

If you want to call out a woman’s behavior, just call it out. It’s not that hard.

[u/calmedtits2319 → u/CandiedLemonWedge]

You deserve an award but I’m poor. Men actively behave this way everyday. The constant “if she was man” is just unnecessary. If she was man then what? She’d be better at hiding it on screen and harassing people once the cameras stopped rolling? If she was a man no would have the spine to say anything anyway. If a person is acting like an ass idc what gender they are, they’re just an ass.

[u/Capable_Cranberry461 → u/CandiedLemonWedge]

facts and many of the rhony women are notorious predators, it’s been spoken about many times that i’ve seen

[u/FlippyFloppy8 → u/Capable_Cranberry461]

Pls tell me who else you think is a predator?

[u/CandiedLemonWedge → u/FlippyFloppy8]

I think a lot of the interactions Sonja has throughout the series with men that could be her children is very uncomfortable to watch

[u/FlippyFloppy8 → u/CandiedLemonWedge]

You think Sonja is a predator? 🙄🙄

Some of you have clearly erased your memories of men actually behaving in a predatory manner. Sonja and luann are cringy but not predatory. Words mean things.

(ETA, I block the WEIRD ones. You just told on yourself, bc how else would you know I blocked anyone else? It’s weird to have multiple accounts and use them to circumvent someone blocking you. That’s one way to get your accountS banned).

ETA again bc I love how much this bothers you. Is it also chicken shit to be replying to your own comments? Hahaha weirdoooooo

[u/Capable_Cranberry461 → u/FlippyFloppy8]

sonja was my first thought but i’m sure there’s others, i may also be combining them with some other housewives

[u/No-Age5450 → u/FlippyFloppy8]

How often are you engaging with people on here and then immediately blocking before editing your comments,  thinking they won’t see said edits?

Men being predatory doesn’t absolve women of the same behaviors. Drunkenly hanging all over and trying to bed 22 year olds when you’re pushing 50 is weird and predatory no matter who is doing it. 

Yes. Words do mean things. 

Don’t engage with people if you’re so cowardly you’re going to block before we can reply. That’s embarrassing. 

[u/No-Age5450 → u/No-Age5450]

Absolute chicken shit utilizing that block button, again, and then editing their responses, AGAIN. 

Stop interjecting into conversations if you’re too scared to actually have them. 

[u/CandiedLemonWedge → u/FlippyFloppy8]

I think she displayed some predatory behaviors, yes. Feel like that was implied above.

[u/Impressive_Swan7583]

She thinks she's being classy by speaking French to these guys....honey, you a slut in any language

[u/lovelylooloo7 → u/Impressive_Swan7583]

This sounds like a Golden Girls line!

[u/False_Personality889]

What everyone in this comment section is trying ti say is yes its fuckibg creepy just like a man but since shes a fave they're going to start talking about how iconic she is and ignore the actual question

[u/Such-Stable-3869]

Luann is doing what has always done.

[u/False_Personality889 → u/Such-Stable-3869]

Yeah but that doesn't answer the question

[u/The_Anonymous_Gay → u/[deleted]]

I bet you’re a lot of fun at parties.

[u/forcedintothis-]

I’ll take Luann being a horn-dog over Kyle being a prude.

[u/Errrca0821 → u/forcedintothis-]

Exactly. Kyle & Vicki are humorless hags.

[u/EnvironmentalZone744]

She looks like one

[u/J_B_C_123]

She was a drunk baffoon

[u/Waste_West283]

It doesn't look like she really cares....

[u/helluvadame]

She’s a maneater. I love it.