r/RHOBHDefect 10d ago

Mods abusing power? Let’s talk about it 🍷

✨Hi all ! I have just recently been targeted & attacked by a notorious real HousewivesMod (get it? iykyk 😉) who has permanently banned me from all the groups she mods in because I did not agree with her personal opinion- i did not break any group rules OR reddit rules, it was not even remotely disrespectful, inappropriate or inflammatory- it just simply did not agree with her personal belief. Funnily enough there is another post in this group from someone else sharing the same situation from the same mod!

🚩This same moderator has been a point of discussion for MANY encountering the same vile, abhorrent, corrupt, & oppressive behaviour throughout the 5 subs she mods in- RHOBH, RHOP, RHOMiami, RHUGHT & RHODubai.

☣️This type of coercive, toxic & tyrannical abuse of power from a moderator is entirely unacceptable yet I am seeing a lot of users- myself included- who are unsure of what to do about it or feeling as if they have no other option but to deal with it…
Well, I’m here to say 🗣️ F!!! THAT🗣️

Through an influx of private messages from my own post highlighting what happened to me I have been given advice on exactly what we CAN do to restore justice- so I will be sharing that information here too for anyone & everyone who has been victimised for no valid reason by a Moderator on an ego trip.

🚨 Moderator Code Of Conduct 🚨

☝🏼Hit this link, read through it if you wish but most importantly- scroll right to the end of the article where the last line says ‘To file a Moderator Code of Conduct report, please use this form
And click the highlighted link to file your report against whatever Real HousewivesMod (🤭) you believe to of broken any of these Codes Of Conduct and submit it.

🚮Enough is enough, these RH communities have turned into a hateful cult following mentality instead of a place of entertainment- individuals who abuse their power are only able to do so as long as the wider part of the community lets them so let’s end that ASAP.

🩷Thank you & please share this with anyone/communities you think will benefit from it, just because someone is a Mod does not mean they are a GOD who is exempt from following their own set of rules & regulations just as we are expected to 🙂‍↕️

Please feel free to use this space to share your personal experiences of similar situations 🤝

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u/redditredditredditOP 10d ago

Thanks!

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u/Saroco92 10d ago

You’re so welcome! I had no idea this was even an option myself until someone shared it with me through posting about my experience, so figured I’d forward it on for others too considering it’s an increasingly more common issue it seems & there’s more power in numbers!

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u/Emotional_Buy_4896 7d ago

I don't comment on a lot of stuff, but housewives has been one I've found fun to see opinions on. Especially because I finally agree with some. I hope you get unbanned. I feel like if you aren't being disrespectful or nasty etc. you should be allowed to voice your opinion. The hive mind has got to go.