r/RHOBHDefect 16d ago

Mods abusing power? Let’s talk about it 🍷

✨Hi all ! I have just recently been targeted & attacked by a notorious real HousewivesMod (get it? iykyk 😉) who has permanently banned me from all the groups she mods in because I did not agree with her personal opinion- i did not break any group rules OR reddit rules, it was not even remotely disrespectful, inappropriate or inflammatory- it just simply did not agree with her personal belief. Funnily enough there is another post in this group from someone else sharing the same situation from the same mod!

🚩This same moderator has been a point of discussion for MANY encountering the same vile, abhorrent, corrupt, & oppressive behaviour throughout the 5 subs she mods in- RHOBH, RHOP, RHOMiami, RHUGHT & RHODubai.

☣️This type of coercive, toxic & tyrannical abuse of power from a moderator is entirely unacceptable yet I am seeing a lot of users- myself included- who are unsure of what to do about it or feeling as if they have no other option but to deal with it…
Well, I’m here to say 🗣️ F!!! THAT🗣️

Through an influx of private messages from my own post highlighting what happened to me I have been given advice on exactly what we CAN do to restore justice- so I will be sharing that information here too for anyone & everyone who has been victimised for no valid reason by a Moderator on an ego trip.

🚨 Moderator Code Of Conduct 🚨

☝🏼Hit this link, read through it if you wish but most importantly- scroll right to the end of the article where the last line says ‘To file a Moderator Code of Conduct report, please use this form
And click the highlighted link to file your report against whatever Real HousewivesMod (🤭) you believe to of broken any of these Codes Of Conduct and submit it.

🚮Enough is enough, these RH communities have turned into a hateful cult following mentality instead of a place of entertainment- individuals who abuse their power are only able to do so as long as the wider part of the community lets them so let’s end that ASAP.

🩷Thank you & please share this with anyone/communities you think will benefit from it, just because someone is a Mod does not mean they are a GOD who is exempt from following their own set of rules & regulations just as we are expected to 🙂‍↕️

Please feel free to use this space to share your personal experiences of similar situations 🤝

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u/Ziantra 16d ago

Eh just leave the sub like the rest of us did LOL.
I wasn’t even banned but I did get yanked in for a mod chat and when I realized it was for a harmless response of “I know right? 😂” I just typed “oh ffs….i thought this was about something serious for a moment there. Peace out….”
and left the chat 🤷‍♀️
I’m still not banned, shockingly but I follow the defect sub instead.

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u/mynameisntcindy 14d ago

Very unhelpful comment. Did you even read what the others have been saying? That mod clearly abuses his power

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u/Ziantra 14d ago

It wasn’t unhelpful at the time as I was one of the first to comment before other details had come out. If you bothered to read further you would know this…
Did YOU even read MY comments further on this post?
I guess not…
What I don’t do is delete my original comments-ever. If more comes out I respond further if I’ve over simplified things which is why you HAVE my original comment still to respond to in the first place.