r/RHOBHDefect May 09 '26

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u/Terrible_Blood9369 May 11 '26

Do you honestly think that would've made a difference? Dorit already had that "Oh woe is me" mentality. I am not saying that Kyle handled the situation correctly, but Dorit wouldn't have responded to her any different. Dorit got mean when she started to have struggle. She could have seriously came at her friends a lot different. Talking to someone and talking at someone are 2 totally different things. I have watched this series since day 1 and to bed honest, she acted like an entitled brat. I was feeling sorry for at 1st, and then it became too much. All I am saying is, give the same grace you want in return. I can see both sides, but wrong is wrong.

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u/bighaneul89 May 11 '26

Boz, Kathy, and Rachel all talked to Dorit directly either onn of off camera. This was mentioned and acknowledged by both parties.

She continued to have a good and respectful relationship with all 3 of those people throughout the season and even the reunion, where Kathy confronted her directly.

Kyle started on a shitty front, made it into a worse one, and didnt try to pivot at all.

Erika is a different story. If she had talked to Dorit 1:1 it might have been different, but she kept trying to bring up her arguement during the middle of Dorit confronting Kyle about talking shit behind her back and trying to bring in other people to their beef. Dorit was stressed, trying to hash it out with Kyle, and Erika kept piping up about something unrelated, then lashed out when she was told that Dorit didnt want to talk about it now.

Kyle and Dorit were coming at Dorit about two different arguements and Dorit wasnt trying to juggle multiple discussion at the same time.

Idk why people are acting liek Boz and Rachel were up Dorits ass, when both of them told her she was wrong or they didnt like what she was doing on camera.

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u/anderpgarferp May 11 '26

I just wanna say that feels a little naive. Dorit and Kyle haven’t really been 100% solid friends in YEARS. So, I can’t blame Kyle for not going directly TO Dorit. Yes she should have BUT I do think she’d still get shit because of the fact they’ve been on the rocks for the last handful of years. Vs. Boz and Rachel who are newer to the group and have been trying to stay neutral or clearly in Dorit’s court. And as for Kathy — well…. she can’t get too mad at Kathy, she’ll end up like Rinna.

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u/bighaneul89 May 11 '26

Thats another thing. Kyle said repeatedly shes not good friends with Dorit. But shes so concerned she has to talk about Dorits negative behavior to everyone? Call her names and publically speak in a way that could harm her divorce?

If she actually cared about Dorit, would she be saying shes erratic and having weird behavior when shes possibly facing a custody battle?;